I recently adopted 2 kittens. There's Artie, DSH orange/white tabby, he's 10 mos old and 10 pounds. He came first. Then there's Sasha, DSH solid black, he's now 7 mos old and 6.5 pounds. Artie is a mischief maker and total rule breaker and kind of aloof, Sasha is a lap cat, timid yet very playful and loving. Artie antagonizes Sasha constantly and that bothers me. But, what really bothers me is feeding time. I feed them both, routinely twice a day. Artie is about double the size of Sasha so he gets a little more in his bowl. You can hear him scarfing down his food so fast, then he licks the bowl clean AND THEN he goes and nudges Sasha's head out of the way and tries to eat up Sasha's food. It really bothers me. Sasha just watches and never fights for back or retaliates! Whats up with that???