An update from my end

It feels like i have been gone forever, so many new members are here!
Sorry I haven't been online very much, mostly just lurking and posting a comment when I find the time to, usually in the mornings at 5 am before I go to work.

Upon my arrival back to Germany things got very tough, adjusting to a new person in the house, working, and my wallet being stolen nearly resulted of me losing my job because at the airport I needed my ID card to go through customs. I was then pregnant and was told that they had to remove my baby as I had an Ectopic pregnancy. I was then admitted to a Clinic and having no health insurance and coming back from a Holiday was a financial strain and really hard. Everything just happened so quickly, time flew by and it felt like I had no time to think!

The good news is that I'm now recovering mentally from the episode, and Trav has got a stable job for the next 6 months. Our relationship is really good I really cant complain about anything. He does the dishes without me asking and helps me out around the house when I ask him to. He has been very supportive and I dont know how to describe it but he has been great.
He also bought us a new computer, and lots of clothes and new shoes.

Kaylee and Teufel absolutely love Trav , he plays with them, feeds them , cuddles them and lets them sleep with him! (sometimes i get jealous when Kaylee goes to sleep on him instead of me)

Well thats all I can think of for now, Ill be online a bit more this month as i dont have to work so much

Have a nice day everyone

You have been trhough a bad time, haven't you? Welcome back and I hope all goes better from now on. And I am glad you have a good support in Trav.

It's nice to hear from you.
I hope that you share some pictures of your cutie pies, Kaylee and Teufel, with us soon.

Fran!..
Thank you for your kind wishes!

to Teufel and to Kaylee!...

Hey Fran!

I am so sorry about the ectopic pregnancy I hope you are okay

I'm glad you seem to be doing well, and how wonderful to have found a nice guy!

I'm sorry to hear about your difficulties, and am glad things are looking up!

It's a rough thing, having an ectopic pregnancy. I had one, and my grandmother died from one when my dad was ten years old. And guess what? Your chances at another (normal) pregnancy is 70% with one fallopian tube, not 50% like one would think. We had our daughter after my ectopic pregnancy. I hope that cheers you up a little. Take care.

That is alot of stuff to happen to you in a short period of time.
I hope that you are feeling better soon. Trav sounds like he is very good for you.

Aww, Fran, I'm so sorry you've had such problems! It's good to hear that Trav is so supportive, and that your sweeties love him. Every time I dust the tall bookcase in our spare bedroom I think of Teufel and Kaylee on top of it, as that was definitely their favorite spot! Then I have to laugh about how they'd both run to Jamie's litter box and use it the minute I let them out of the bedroom - that was too funny! Are you still getting the Golden Grey litter?

Are you guys going to Italy over Christmas, or are your parents coming to Frankfurt?

Great to hear from you Fran!

I'm really sorry to hear about the ectopic pregnancy. Sounds like you're doing a lot better though and hopefully things continue to look good.

Originally Posted by jcat

Aww, Fran, I'm so sorry you've had such problems!

It's good to hear that Trav is so supportive, and that your sweeties love him. Every time I dust the tall bookcase in our spare bedroom I think of Teufel and Kaylee on top of it, as that was definitely their favorite spot! Then I have to laugh about how they'd both run to Jamie's litter box and use it the minute I let them out of the bedroom - that was too funny! Are you still getting the Golden Grey litter?

Are you guys going to Italy over Christmas, or are your parents coming to Frankfurt?

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Thank you everyone for your words, Trav and I do want children but we want to wait until we get back to Australia. We both have the same opinion that we don't want to raise our children here!

Yes I still get the Golden Gray, I in fact just ran out last week and im ordering another box, Its great and it lasts for so long and doesn't make the litter box smell at all!

My parents have changed their minds, they aren't coming here for Christmas, and we aren't going over there for xmas. My mother is expecting visitors from Scotland for new years so we will see if they will show up. I may fly to Italy with Trav in February for 3 - 4 days.

Trav has a good quality digital camera, infact he has taken so many pictures of the two I shall resize them and post them up in a few minutes!

Teufel has put on a fair bit of weight since i returned from Australia, he is a big fuzz ball