Awww! Poor DH, for the kitty rejection, and for being in the wheelchair.
I agree with those asking if you feed her or does he! So you say she used to be closier to him than she is now? If so, then you will have to narrow it down
when the change occurred, and why the change occurred? I bet it is the food thing, because that is how all the cats I've ever know to be. my parents have one of my cats from whenever I was pregnant with Jace, (they took both of my cats then, long story) Stash, who was my baby, cause I was the one who fed her. she did love Marvin though for some reason? I just thought it was because he was a male?
But whenever they moved to my parents, my mom was working full time, and my dad was home retired, he took care of her, I mean no one but him could touch
her, she hisses at all of us if we try to pet her etc. But when my mom retired, and was home all the time, she started feeding her and boom, now Stash sleeps with her!
Stash is quite mental
She is a little touched! My dad actually takes her out for a walk at night like a dog or something! She was once my baby and now she doesn't like me either! Sounds like your baby might have a bit of feral in her!
Well you'll just need to go get him his own lit' baby kitty! One of different demeanor, one that will ride on that wheelchair everywhere he goes! Cats are all different for all different reasons! Tell hubby not to be too hurt!!!
Surprise him with his own baby one day! I believe it does have something to do with who feeds them! Cats also like women because of the softness in their voice. when I talk to mine, I even go up a pitch, dunno
why I do this it's just habit! I'll keep ya'll in my prayers! Hope things turn around soon!