Well I've read a couple posts of yours now. And I think you could benifit from reading these links I'm sending you. It's general cat care information, and can help you understand you cat, and make the bonding and caring process more fun and a lot easier!
But please, if you have any more questions do ask! http://www.cfainc.org/caring.htmlhttp://www.catcaresociety.org/http://www.care-for-my-cat.com/http://www.hsus.org/ace/12562
How old is your cat, if she is at LEAST 5-6 months please get her spayed asap. And take her to the vet for a check up/shots asap!
I'm also hoping that you keep your cat indoors, it's much safer for them, on average they live longer and are happier, and you can form a stonger bond with them, then a cat that is outdoors or indoors & outdoors.