I just found out that my boyfriend (now my EX-boyfriend) was cheating on me and I am absolutely devastated. I actually found out on Saturday, and it wasn't from him telling me. It was from me calling him while he was somewhere he shouldn't have been. At first I was really angry, took down our pictures, updated my MySpace page (I know that sounds childish), and called all of my friends screaming and crying hysterically. Then I went out and had some fun, and enjoyed being single for a while.
Yesterday morning he asked me to come over (he lives in the same apartment building as I do) so we could talk. He gave me the typical monologue you would expect from a guilty person. "I love you so much and don't want to lose you, I'm so sorry that I did this to you and I was right on the verge of coming clean to you. I feel so horrible and would do anything to get you back." There was a lot more said but that's the gist of it. I really don't know what I should do.
I love him so much, and I think everyone deserves a second chance, but I really do not see how I could ever trust him again. Has anyone ever been cheated on and how did you deal with it? Did you give them another chance?
Yesterday morning he asked me to come over (he lives in the same apartment building as I do) so we could talk. He gave me the typical monologue you would expect from a guilty person. "I love you so much and don't want to lose you, I'm so sorry that I did this to you and I was right on the verge of coming clean to you. I feel so horrible and would do anything to get you back." There was a lot more said but that's the gist of it. I really don't know what I should do.
I love him so much, and I think everyone deserves a second chance, but I really do not see how I could ever trust him again. Has anyone ever been cheated on and how did you deal with it? Did you give them another chance?