Hi, this is my first post but I've been lurking here for a bit...
Now, brace yourself. I like to ramble. But this way you guys can get the full story!
I have a bit of an issue with my gorgeous cat Tobi (Obviously my forum name is in honour of him).
He's a Domestic that I got from a sanctuary when he was about 8 weeks old. Now, he's about 6 years old.
To begin with, Tobi was a lovely cat. He got along so well with the other two cats we had at the time (A Persian cross called Jayjay that we got from the RSPCA as an older cat, and a beautiful Manx called Molly who we got from the RSPCA as a kitten.)
He was a gorgeous kitten. So well behaved and social. The perfect cat in every way. We moved house twice with him and the other two cats, and everything was fine.
In our old house (I'm looking at about 2 years ago here) he was very happy. Then our gorgeous Manx, Molly, got mauled by the dog next door who had escaped his yard. Unfortunately she didn't live to tell the tale. I think Tobi was confused about the death of his big sister, but he still seemed fine.
I live with my mother and her partner, and my sister. Molly was my sister's cat. She doesn't believe in mourning periods and insisted on getting another kitten immediately! So we got another kitten called Milo from the RSPCA again. We lived right near a creek and he got out one day and was bitten by a snake, after we had him for about 4 months. Really bad luck, but unfortunately there's nothing to blame but a wild snake and an escaped dog. Of course, another cat was needed immediately! (I don't particularly approve of this by the way. I was so sad about the two cats dying that I thought we should definitely have waited a lot longer before getting another kitten, but no one can tell my sister what to do!) This time we got the most beautiful cat. A longhair of some sort. He was a rescued kitten and handraised from a few days of age, so he's VERY affectionate. Tobi and Memphis (the new cat) got along fantastically!
We moved house a few months later to where I am now. Tobi didn't like the move very much at all (even though we'd moved twice before with him and he was fine with it). Old Jayjay died at the ripe old age of 16 human years with something we suspect was cat dimensia (She went a bit crazy in the end, poor girl) and I think Tobi was a bit confused, but didn't seem to care much at all. They weren't exactly buddies, they just lived together. A few months after living here, he started acting slightly odd. We let him out when he wants to go out through a doggie door. He started acting very shaken up. I suspect he's had a big fright or something. Then he started to get into other cats on the street (At least this is what I suspect. He often has scabs and scratches on him.)
To make matters worse, then my mother's partner moved in. Guess what came with her? A lovely Bichon x Poodle puppy! Tobi didn't like this much at ALL. Tobi started staying out longer, even though he has the entire top level of the house to himself and can sleep in my room uninterrupted every night. We had to start taking his food to a different place in the house because he wouldn't go near the dog. Things have gotten so bad that he's gotten really large cuts on him (The vet gave us antiseptic cream and told us that if they got infected to come back, but that the best thing to do is just let it heal over, as it's probably just from a fight) and when he comes inside, half the time he will jump on my lap and want to be petted... and the other half of the time he sits on the stairs and attacks anyone who walks past him. He's got some good claws and teeth on him too.
Now, we're moving house soon, in January, and we'll be moving into flats, so I'll have my own flat, as will my sister and my mother (and the dog!).
I'm hoping that this will help him out, but he already has the top level of the house to himself now so I'm not sure what difference it'll make.
I just have no idea what to do. The worst thing is that my aim is to work with animals and that I pride myself on my knowledge of dogs and cats, but then my own cat has issues and I haven't got a clue what to do!
When I move I'd love to get myself a new kitten and a puppy but I'm worried that Tobi will react to this badly and I'd never do anything to make him upset, so I can wait if I have to (even though I'm terrible at being patient!).
Please help me out with this. I just haven't got a clue what to do...
I'm so sorry about the length of this post!
Alex (Which is, of course, my actual name. Not Tobi!)
Now, brace yourself. I like to ramble. But this way you guys can get the full story!
I have a bit of an issue with my gorgeous cat Tobi (Obviously my forum name is in honour of him).
He's a Domestic that I got from a sanctuary when he was about 8 weeks old. Now, he's about 6 years old.
To begin with, Tobi was a lovely cat. He got along so well with the other two cats we had at the time (A Persian cross called Jayjay that we got from the RSPCA as an older cat, and a beautiful Manx called Molly who we got from the RSPCA as a kitten.)
He was a gorgeous kitten. So well behaved and social. The perfect cat in every way. We moved house twice with him and the other two cats, and everything was fine.
In our old house (I'm looking at about 2 years ago here) he was very happy. Then our gorgeous Manx, Molly, got mauled by the dog next door who had escaped his yard. Unfortunately she didn't live to tell the tale. I think Tobi was confused about the death of his big sister, but he still seemed fine.
I live with my mother and her partner, and my sister. Molly was my sister's cat. She doesn't believe in mourning periods and insisted on getting another kitten immediately! So we got another kitten called Milo from the RSPCA again. We lived right near a creek and he got out one day and was bitten by a snake, after we had him for about 4 months. Really bad luck, but unfortunately there's nothing to blame but a wild snake and an escaped dog. Of course, another cat was needed immediately! (I don't particularly approve of this by the way. I was so sad about the two cats dying that I thought we should definitely have waited a lot longer before getting another kitten, but no one can tell my sister what to do!) This time we got the most beautiful cat. A longhair of some sort. He was a rescued kitten and handraised from a few days of age, so he's VERY affectionate. Tobi and Memphis (the new cat) got along fantastically!
We moved house a few months later to where I am now. Tobi didn't like the move very much at all (even though we'd moved twice before with him and he was fine with it). Old Jayjay died at the ripe old age of 16 human years with something we suspect was cat dimensia (She went a bit crazy in the end, poor girl) and I think Tobi was a bit confused, but didn't seem to care much at all. They weren't exactly buddies, they just lived together. A few months after living here, he started acting slightly odd. We let him out when he wants to go out through a doggie door. He started acting very shaken up. I suspect he's had a big fright or something. Then he started to get into other cats on the street (At least this is what I suspect. He often has scabs and scratches on him.)
To make matters worse, then my mother's partner moved in. Guess what came with her? A lovely Bichon x Poodle puppy! Tobi didn't like this much at ALL. Tobi started staying out longer, even though he has the entire top level of the house to himself and can sleep in my room uninterrupted every night. We had to start taking his food to a different place in the house because he wouldn't go near the dog. Things have gotten so bad that he's gotten really large cuts on him (The vet gave us antiseptic cream and told us that if they got infected to come back, but that the best thing to do is just let it heal over, as it's probably just from a fight) and when he comes inside, half the time he will jump on my lap and want to be petted... and the other half of the time he sits on the stairs and attacks anyone who walks past him. He's got some good claws and teeth on him too.
Now, we're moving house soon, in January, and we'll be moving into flats, so I'll have my own flat, as will my sister and my mother (and the dog!).
I'm hoping that this will help him out, but he already has the top level of the house to himself now so I'm not sure what difference it'll make.
I just have no idea what to do. The worst thing is that my aim is to work with animals and that I pride myself on my knowledge of dogs and cats, but then my own cat has issues and I haven't got a clue what to do!
When I move I'd love to get myself a new kitten and a puppy but I'm worried that Tobi will react to this badly and I'd never do anything to make him upset, so I can wait if I have to (even though I'm terrible at being patient!).
Please help me out with this. I just haven't got a clue what to do...
I'm so sorry about the length of this post!
Alex (Which is, of course, my actual name. Not Tobi!)