A week ago DHs grandma found his grandpa slumped in his chair and looking gray. He went to the hospital and the doctors said he had a bad bladder infection with a fever. They also thought he had a stroke. They did an MRI and he didn't have a stroke but he's not doing well. He can't swallow anything and his mind is going. The docs think that the fever messed up his brain. He wants to go home but the docs said if he goes home he'll die. The only thing they can do is get him well enough to go to a nursing home. Nobody wants him to die but he's just so old and falling apart. A part of us just wishes he'd let go. DH and I are going to see him tomorrow and I'm scared. I don't want to see him like this.