but I'm about this close <_> Of course we never would but we are really running out of patience.
We have 3 amazing cats and have fostered a bunch more. But Max is the most unhappy cat I have ever, ever seen. Even the feral ones we have rescued we have managed to 'break'. I got Max and his sister Ginger when they were about 8 weeks old (rescued). Ginger is a love mush but Max never, never wanted anything to do with us. Except at night when he becomes a bundle of love. But you cant really look at him when he is kneading me in bed, otherwise he will run away. Otherwise he spends his whole day sleeping in one spot, sneaking for food. If you see him eat he will run as well.
If the cat social service came to our house we would be thrown in cat-jail for apparent cat abuse.
He has always been 'difficult' with regard to not going to the bathroom in the litter box. We always know when we come back from a weekend trip that he will defecate on the couch or right on our bed. But tonight he decided to defecate on the bed for no apparent reason. As 'shy' as he is, he is also that smart. He know what he did. But it's the why we can't figure out.
He has always been like this so it's not something new but it's getting worse.
We have moved a few time but that was almost a year ago and actually when we get to the new place he has more energy checking things out and playing. But then it's back to himself.
The last move was overseas so we did get him something to calm him down for the trip. We did a trial run with the meds before the actually flight just to make sure and guess what...he was the most loving he had ever been. Sat on my lap for the first time in 8 years.
So, looks like we need to see a vet about meds. Don't see any other option. We are not people to run to medicate a problem but don't see any other option. Other then putting him in a shelter for a few days to see how bad life can really be
We have 3 amazing cats and have fostered a bunch more. But Max is the most unhappy cat I have ever, ever seen. Even the feral ones we have rescued we have managed to 'break'. I got Max and his sister Ginger when they were about 8 weeks old (rescued). Ginger is a love mush but Max never, never wanted anything to do with us. Except at night when he becomes a bundle of love. But you cant really look at him when he is kneading me in bed, otherwise he will run away. Otherwise he spends his whole day sleeping in one spot, sneaking for food. If you see him eat he will run as well.
If the cat social service came to our house we would be thrown in cat-jail for apparent cat abuse.
He has always been 'difficult' with regard to not going to the bathroom in the litter box. We always know when we come back from a weekend trip that he will defecate on the couch or right on our bed. But tonight he decided to defecate on the bed for no apparent reason. As 'shy' as he is, he is also that smart. He know what he did. But it's the why we can't figure out.
He has always been like this so it's not something new but it's getting worse.
We have moved a few time but that was almost a year ago and actually when we get to the new place he has more energy checking things out and playing. But then it's back to himself.
The last move was overseas so we did get him something to calm him down for the trip. We did a trial run with the meds before the actually flight just to make sure and guess what...he was the most loving he had ever been. Sat on my lap for the first time in 8 years.
So, looks like we need to see a vet about meds. Don't see any other option. We are not people to run to medicate a problem but don't see any other option. Other then putting him in a shelter for a few days to see how bad life can really be