Ok, everyone I need some advice about relationships. I've been getting to know this guy through a match making site. He asked me how I was doing & as some of you may know my cat has CRF & had a bad day this week. Well I basicly sad that it has been a tough week & that my cat was not doing well so I was sad. I left it at that because I don't really know this guy & I wasn't sure how he felt about animals. Let me say here that in my personality profile I have made it clear how much I love animals. His response to me was basicly I've had a few anmials & I was always sorry to see them die, but "it's part of life." Then at the end of the letter he said he'd say a prayer for my cat. I guess my question is how would you inturpret this? My first reaction was basicly that I wasn't intrested in him anymore, but then when I thought about it I realized that even my mother has said things like she knows how sad I am, but that we all die. (which by the way I know. I don't know much but I like to think that this fact has not escaped my attention). So then I was thinking that basicly he just has not had a close relationship with any animals so he doesn't understand the connection I have with my baby kitty. Which brings up my second question, as animal people would you continue getting to know someone who possibly would never understand your love for animals??
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1/29/03 at 5:46pm