This is all completely hypothical at this point, so I wasn't really sure where to post it. If it needs to be moved, then that's fine.
I know I eventually want a third kitty. This won't even begin to happen for another couple of years because my apartment complex only allows a maximum of 2 pets. (I can only hope they raise the limit!)
So, my possible problem is Possum. I think Loki would be fine because he seems to just want friends, and he seemed to accept Possum way before Possum stopped hissing at him. Poor guy walked around for a few days looking upset and bewildered like he was thinking, "Why doesn't he want to be friends?" He did back off from me a little bit, but that may have been because a lot of major things happened to him in a short time.
From what I know Possum has lived with multiple cats. He didn't do so well in a cattery-like environment, apparently, but did much better in a foster home. I don't know much about foster pet homes, but it may have been a bit chaotic. He does fantastically here. He absolutely loves Loki. He also absolutely loves me, which is good, but he seems like he has a jealous streak. This streak does seem to have let up a bit concerning Loki. Possum also seems to be a bit needy.
If I adopted another cat it would probably be around Loki's and Possum's then ages; may a little younger, but 2 at the very least. They are 2 and nearly 3 now. I honestly don't have any interest in kittens. I suspect that if I brought another animal Possum would be very upset. Possum very much feels that he's deserves the top position in my life, and he's somewhat clingy.
Is there anything I can do to determine his ability to accept another cat? Possum was originally here on a trial adoption basis in case he and Loki didn't like each other, but I know most places don't do that, and I seriously doubt I'll be living here, where I got Possum, when I'll be ready for another cat.
Am I nuts to wonder about this so early? Also, if I did get a third kitty, what if I suddenly won't "feel complete" until I got four?
Tricia
I know I eventually want a third kitty. This won't even begin to happen for another couple of years because my apartment complex only allows a maximum of 2 pets. (I can only hope they raise the limit!)
So, my possible problem is Possum. I think Loki would be fine because he seems to just want friends, and he seemed to accept Possum way before Possum stopped hissing at him. Poor guy walked around for a few days looking upset and bewildered like he was thinking, "Why doesn't he want to be friends?" He did back off from me a little bit, but that may have been because a lot of major things happened to him in a short time.
From what I know Possum has lived with multiple cats. He didn't do so well in a cattery-like environment, apparently, but did much better in a foster home. I don't know much about foster pet homes, but it may have been a bit chaotic. He does fantastically here. He absolutely loves Loki. He also absolutely loves me, which is good, but he seems like he has a jealous streak. This streak does seem to have let up a bit concerning Loki. Possum also seems to be a bit needy.
If I adopted another cat it would probably be around Loki's and Possum's then ages; may a little younger, but 2 at the very least. They are 2 and nearly 3 now. I honestly don't have any interest in kittens. I suspect that if I brought another animal Possum would be very upset. Possum very much feels that he's deserves the top position in my life, and he's somewhat clingy.
Is there anything I can do to determine his ability to accept another cat? Possum was originally here on a trial adoption basis in case he and Loki didn't like each other, but I know most places don't do that, and I seriously doubt I'll be living here, where I got Possum, when I'll be ready for another cat.
Am I nuts to wonder about this so early? Also, if I did get a third kitty, what if I suddenly won't "feel complete" until I got four?
Tricia