I am soo embarrased to be posting here. But here I go
I think Georgi may be pregnant....
Now before I get told I should have gotten her spayed I will say I agree I should of but silly me didnt get around to it because a:its not cheap and b:everytime i think about getting her done I start bawling about leaving her at a strange place.
So anyway.. last night I was holding her and I felt a lump on her tummy I went oh crap what is that - it was right by her nipple and her nipple was pink
and bigger than it used to be- some of her nipples are still small and whitish others are bigger and pinker. Now I cant feel that lump anymore around her nipple but they are still bigger and pinker - it just dawned on me that it could of been a kitten? could it? She has also been more cuddly but also more growly too like last night she actually was growling while i was cuddling her but this morning she was all cuddles.
This is just at the worst time possible - we have had 3 medical emergencys in the last 2 weeks costing us about 5000 dollars and now I have to make a tough decision whether to do a spay/abort or let her have the kitties.
Now we dont have much of a problem with having the kittens around and feeding them and all that, its just first of all I am worried about how Tigger will take not being the baby anymore and my mum doesnt want anymore than two cats - but we have had 3 before so if she had them we would probably be able to keep one or two of them, but im worried about giving them up - i know it will be awful and i dont know if i could handle it, i have only had tigger for 3 months and i love him more than anything i couldnt imagine not having him so I cant imagine giving up 2-3 month old kittens
and then there is the issue of how Georgi will handle it - will the birth go ok? will she be a good mother? where will she have them? wil they be healthy?
and all those other questions
so the obvious thing would be to get a spay/abort but i dont think it is right myself, but I would definitely do it if I hadnt been thinking about having newborn kittens around lately. We had newborn kittens around .. 2 years ago at christmas and we loved it -there was only 2 of them and it was nothing but joy, they unfortunatley both died last year from unknown causes - which was heartbreaking of course. But a big part of me really wants to have babies around.
I really dont know what to do. Because there is a chance she might not be pregnant at all and just me being paranoid, in which case im happy to go get her spayed asap but if she is half of me wants the babies - and I felt really gutted when my mum said she would prefer a spay abort so definitley some part of me wants them, but then with me especially being a really anxious person there are a gazillion worries too.
So what is your opinion on spay/abort?
Would it be better to have the kitties then find them homes?
Please any advice you have would be greatly appreciated
Cheers
I think Georgi may be pregnant....
Now before I get told I should have gotten her spayed I will say I agree I should of but silly me didnt get around to it because a:its not cheap and b:everytime i think about getting her done I start bawling about leaving her at a strange place.
So anyway.. last night I was holding her and I felt a lump on her tummy I went oh crap what is that - it was right by her nipple and her nipple was pink
and bigger than it used to be- some of her nipples are still small and whitish others are bigger and pinker. Now I cant feel that lump anymore around her nipple but they are still bigger and pinker - it just dawned on me that it could of been a kitten? could it? She has also been more cuddly but also more growly too like last night she actually was growling while i was cuddling her but this morning she was all cuddles.
This is just at the worst time possible - we have had 3 medical emergencys in the last 2 weeks costing us about 5000 dollars and now I have to make a tough decision whether to do a spay/abort or let her have the kitties.
Now we dont have much of a problem with having the kittens around and feeding them and all that, its just first of all I am worried about how Tigger will take not being the baby anymore and my mum doesnt want anymore than two cats - but we have had 3 before so if she had them we would probably be able to keep one or two of them, but im worried about giving them up - i know it will be awful and i dont know if i could handle it, i have only had tigger for 3 months and i love him more than anything i couldnt imagine not having him so I cant imagine giving up 2-3 month old kittens
and then there is the issue of how Georgi will handle it - will the birth go ok? will she be a good mother? where will she have them? wil they be healthy?
and all those other questions
so the obvious thing would be to get a spay/abort but i dont think it is right myself, but I would definitely do it if I hadnt been thinking about having newborn kittens around lately. We had newborn kittens around .. 2 years ago at christmas and we loved it -there was only 2 of them and it was nothing but joy, they unfortunatley both died last year from unknown causes - which was heartbreaking of course. But a big part of me really wants to have babies around.
I really dont know what to do. Because there is a chance she might not be pregnant at all and just me being paranoid, in which case im happy to go get her spayed asap but if she is half of me wants the babies - and I felt really gutted when my mum said she would prefer a spay abort so definitley some part of me wants them, but then with me especially being a really anxious person there are a gazillion worries too.
So what is your opinion on spay/abort?
Would it be better to have the kitties then find them homes?
Please any advice you have would be greatly appreciated
Cheers