my wive and I are recently dirvorced and living about 2 miles from each other. We couldn't have kids, so our cats were our kids. Obviously this creates a problem in a divorce. I'd like to have the cats one or two nights a month at my house. My ex thinks it will be too rough on the cats to try to move them to another house for a visit (they're primarily indoor). I say the probably won't care. I just don't want them to forget me.