I'm in a tough situation and I'm looking for some advice. Many of you know that I rescue and that last summer I added to my clan. I had a rescue that I just couldn't let go. I love her dearly. I tried really hard to find the perfect adopter for her, but I couldn't, so I kept her. LOL. The problem is that my original resident brother and sister will NOT leave her alone. It's getting worse. She now pretty much lives on my daughter's loft bed because she can get up there, and most of the time my first female can't and the male can't. I can't imagine that she's happy, and the only time she really has free reign of the house is when I lock the other two in the bathroom. That's no life. My house is not set up in a way that I can give her her own space with doors between her and the other two. My other male does just fine with her, and the resident siblings are fine with him. They've just decided that they hate this last addition. and it didn't used to be like that. I've tried feliway, time outs, water bottle, soft paws on the offending sister, even putting BOTH the male and the female in a pink tutu dress as humiliation. NOTHING is working. They are tormenting her. My selfish side says that I can make it work, but I'm wondering if I shouldn't consider putting her up for adoption after all. I can't see any change in the near future that would allow her to have her own space free of them, because three of the 4 of them will not tolerate closed doors and will dig holes in the carpet under the doors. Since I just had all the carpet upstairs replaced, that won't work, and there's no way to close the upstairs off from the downstairs, and no doors downstairs except a closet and a bathroom, neither of which she could live in. Short of putting her up for adoption, does anyone have suggestions for behavior modification on my offending brats?
That's my BOY in the bad kitty pink tutu dress.
That's my BOY in the bad kitty pink tutu dress.