My FIL is in the hospital with cirrhosis of the liver, he's been an alcoholic at least 30 years I've known him, He is full of fluid, internal beeding,jaudiced, he is refusing all tests, just being miserable. I am so stress, my DH loves his Dad so much. He is taking off work to go and try to reason with his Dad. I know he is wasting his time, FIL doesn't listen to anyone. All the kids (5) are argueing over what to do.They are all adults. They lost their Mom a year ago. I get so angry that he has done this to himself, his drinking has put his family through hell. I am both sad and angry at the same time