SO a couple weeks ago i fell down a full flight of stairs down to a finished basement and shattered my elbow and broke a vertabrae in my neck. i know, i know
if that wasnt stressful enough... i been planning on going to a close friend's wedding for FOREVER... it is this saturday... it will be exactly 3 weeks from the accident. now mind you, i do feel better every day but i have to wear a neck brace 24/7 and i have a brace on my arm (had emergency surgery). my mom has to help me bathe, dress.... tomorrow i go to the neck dr. to see how its healing, and they are debating surgery on it, but they will know tomorrow i guess.
SO MY DILEMMA IS... my friend really wants me to go to her wedding... i've known them since way before they were engaged... and i dont know if i should go. any thoughts? my boyfriend said whatever i want to do, but i just dont wanna say yes i'll go (she has to know by tonight for the final headcount) and then be uncomfortable the whole time or not be able to go for some reason, then they're stuck paying for 2 more plates... or say no and then regret it forever that i could have pushed myself and just gone for the few hours. i do get uncomfortable if i cant rest for a while.... but maybe in a week i'll be a little better? UGH this couldnt have happened at a worse time... but i am just venting... i hate going in public with this neck brace but i guess i could deal... i just dont know. i am leaning toward no but i just feel like i might really regret it and maybe it will make me feel better to get out of the house, but then again, i dont wanna be miserable.
ok im gunna shut up now. thanks guys...
SO MY DILEMMA IS... my friend really wants me to go to her wedding... i've known them since way before they were engaged... and i dont know if i should go. any thoughts? my boyfriend said whatever i want to do, but i just dont wanna say yes i'll go (she has to know by tonight for the final headcount) and then be uncomfortable the whole time or not be able to go for some reason, then they're stuck paying for 2 more plates... or say no and then regret it forever that i could have pushed myself and just gone for the few hours. i do get uncomfortable if i cant rest for a while.... but maybe in a week i'll be a little better? UGH this couldnt have happened at a worse time... but i am just venting... i hate going in public with this neck brace but i guess i could deal... i just dont know. i am leaning toward no but i just feel like i might really regret it and maybe it will make me feel better to get out of the house, but then again, i dont wanna be miserable.