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post #1 of 13
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I lost my dad.

I miss him soooo bad!!! I just wanna be able to see him once again.

I thought after 3 yrs it would be easier, but its not!!!
post #2 of 13
I'm sorry that I have no comforting words for you, just . Take care of yourself.
post #3 of 13
I'm so sorry, hon.
post #4 of 13
Awww Monica I can't even imagine what you are feeling...He is with you
post #5 of 13
My thoughts and prayers are with you, Monica. I know it's hard, but try to focus on the happy memories you have of your father and know that he'll always be with you.
post #6 of 13
For me, it's just over five years, and it's my mom. No, it doesn't get easier, but I find that looking at photos and remembering good times helps a lot. Do you have things like this that you enjoy doing in order to keep your memory of your Dad alive?
post #7 of 13
I know how you feel, I lost my dad almost 2 months ago and it is really hard. I find looking at pictures really helps and I got a tattoo in memory of him that has really helped me deal with it. If you need someone to talk to, you can pm me.
post #8 of 13
Time does make it easier, at times, but for me, the anniversary still hits me hard. I lost my dad Nov 3, 2002 and my mom May 14, 2004. Day to day the rest of the year, I have some bad days, but mostly I'm ok. But on the anniversaries, I seem to play the whole day over again in my mind and the pain is fresh. I know how you feel. Grieve if you want to, cry if you want to. And, don't let anyone tell you "you should be over it by now"...because losing a parent is something you will never "get over", you just get on.
post #9 of 13
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Originally Posted by calico2222 View Post
Time does make it easier, at times, but for me, the anniversary still hits me hard. I lost my dad Nov 3, 2002 and my mom May 14, 2004. Day to day the rest of the year, I have some bad days, but mostly I'm ok. But on the anniversaries, I seem to play the whole day over again in my mind and the pain is fresh. I know how you feel. Grieve if you want to, cry if you want to. And, don't let anyone tell you "you should be over it by now"...because losing a parent is something you will never "get over", you just get on.
You are so right!!! And many to you!!!
post #10 of 13
Aww, that must be so hard..I can't imagine
post #11 of 13
I'm so sorry.
post #12 of 13
I'm so sorry..
post #13 of 13
I am so sorry. I cannot imagine how hard that must be.
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