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Well, he arrived shortly after 7pm and left a few minutes ago.
He brought over 1.5 litres of red wine!!!!
He drank more than I was comfortable with, but whether that was due to nerves or a "habit" I don't know. Something for me to watch for the next time.
He respected me enough to understand that I take relationships slow. I can't say he was happy to hear that, because I know he was disappointed. I think he was secretly hoping that I would get "tipsy" and fall into bed with him
We hugged a few times before he left. I let him kiss me on the cheek and told him that I like to take a relationship slowly and get to know someone before physical intimacy comes into it.
According to him he likes me enough to want to see me again, but I told him that he has to respect my wishes and move at MY pace and that nothing more physical will happen until I'm comfortable with it and it feels right to me.
I did tell a white lie and told him that I had a doctor appointment tomorrow morning in order to give me a reason to end the evening. He asked if I was taking Handi Transit. I lied and said no, that I forgot to book it and was taking a cab. He said he would call me in the morning if he has a break in his schedule and drive me there I tried to get out of that by telling him that I may leave hearly and go to the mall first before the doctor. He said he would call anyway to check.
Anyway, the ball is in his court. He knows that I don't fall into bed with the first person I come across and I told him flat out that I like to take things slow and if he wants to see me again it's at my own pace, not his. So we'll see.
He's very nice though. He's from South Africa. His father is from South Africa and his mother is from Trinidad. He has the most amazing steel blue eyes and the best profile I've seen on a man in a long time. Definitely cute! And if he is willing to take a relationship slowly I will see him again.
One draw back is that he smokes
I told him that I don't allow smoking in my apartment so he went outside once to have a cigarette. I'm not really keen on getting involved with someone who smokes
But we'll see how it goes.
EDIT:
He said he likes cats, but he never once tried to pet Chynna despite the fact that she was sleeping on his jacket which was on the back of the couch not 6 inches away from him, and Abby even brushed up against his leg a few times. So that's something else to watch for. You would think that someone who likes cats would at least try and pet them if they were showing the person affection like mine were.
Maybe I'm being to picky?
He brought over 1.5 litres of red wine!!!!
He drank more than I was comfortable with, but whether that was due to nerves or a "habit" I don't know. Something for me to watch for the next time.
He respected me enough to understand that I take relationships slow. I can't say he was happy to hear that, because I know he was disappointed. I think he was secretly hoping that I would get "tipsy" and fall into bed with him
According to him he likes me enough to want to see me again, but I told him that he has to respect my wishes and move at MY pace and that nothing more physical will happen until I'm comfortable with it and it feels right to me.
I did tell a white lie and told him that I had a doctor appointment tomorrow morning in order to give me a reason to end the evening. He asked if I was taking Handi Transit. I lied and said no, that I forgot to book it and was taking a cab. He said he would call me in the morning if he has a break in his schedule and drive me there I tried to get out of that by telling him that I may leave hearly and go to the mall first before the doctor. He said he would call anyway to check.
Anyway, the ball is in his court. He knows that I don't fall into bed with the first person I come across and I told him flat out that I like to take things slow and if he wants to see me again it's at my own pace, not his. So we'll see.
He's very nice though. He's from South Africa. His father is from South Africa and his mother is from Trinidad. He has the most amazing steel blue eyes and the best profile I've seen on a man in a long time. Definitely cute! And if he is willing to take a relationship slowly I will see him again.
One draw back is that he smokes
EDIT:
He said he likes cats, but he never once tried to pet Chynna despite the fact that she was sleeping on his jacket which was on the back of the couch not 6 inches away from him, and Abby even brushed up against his leg a few times. So that's something else to watch for. You would think that someone who likes cats would at least try and pet them if they were showing the person affection like mine were.
Maybe I'm being to picky?