I am wondering what other peopleâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s experiences have been with cats and their levels of displaying affection. I have had three cats in my adult life and all three have been extremely affectionate, with the latest two being complete love bugs. The only one I have living with me right now must be on me, or around me and meows like a nutcase if he goes into the backyard and comes back in. Itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s like he has to tell me what heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s been doing. He doesnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t like to be outside for long, but occasionally does a quick tour of the garden and comes back in.
If I sit on the couch he has to come lay on me, or beside me if heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s too hot. He does the funniest thing with his head, trying to turn it upside down while heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s still standing up, until he gives up and just flops over and puts his feet in the air. When I go to bed he come and sleeps on the bed and I have to remain fairly still or heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]ll start purring and drape himself over the top of my head. He really likes it when I pick him up, and if I bend over heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]ll stretch himself upward in anticipation. My Mom loves to pick him up because he turns himself in our hands to keep facing us as we lift him. He's a danger to walk around with as he doesn't seem to understand how to not trip me, so I always keep a hand on the banister on the stairs.
My parents and my sisterâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s cats on the other hand are just not affectionate. They seem to allow the humans to live in the house, but could care less. They will occasionally cuddle with them but most of the time they are indifferent. My parents have 4 cats all together, all various rescues, and my sister has two Siamese crosses that are approaching 14 years old.
I wonder if because their cats were raised with other cats or have become accustomed to cat company, if they are less affectionate with people. I have raised cats together as well however, and somehow my cats end up as love bugs. Is this behaviour learned or innate, I wonder. All of the cats I have discussed are domestic mixes, with a few confirmed Siamese ancestors in the mix. My cat Bonkers, who passed away 2 years ago was a rescue from a litter of kittens, and we know that a large male Siamese was the father. I kept Bonkers and my parents kept two of the same litter. Mine ended up affectionate, theirs were less so.
If I sit on the couch he has to come lay on me, or beside me if heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s too hot. He does the funniest thing with his head, trying to turn it upside down while heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s still standing up, until he gives up and just flops over and puts his feet in the air. When I go to bed he come and sleeps on the bed and I have to remain fairly still or heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]ll start purring and drape himself over the top of my head. He really likes it when I pick him up, and if I bend over heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]ll stretch himself upward in anticipation. My Mom loves to pick him up because he turns himself in our hands to keep facing us as we lift him. He's a danger to walk around with as he doesn't seem to understand how to not trip me, so I always keep a hand on the banister on the stairs.
My parents and my sisterâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s cats on the other hand are just not affectionate. They seem to allow the humans to live in the house, but could care less. They will occasionally cuddle with them but most of the time they are indifferent. My parents have 4 cats all together, all various rescues, and my sister has two Siamese crosses that are approaching 14 years old.
I wonder if because their cats were raised with other cats or have become accustomed to cat company, if they are less affectionate with people. I have raised cats together as well however, and somehow my cats end up as love bugs. Is this behaviour learned or innate, I wonder. All of the cats I have discussed are domestic mixes, with a few confirmed Siamese ancestors in the mix. My cat Bonkers, who passed away 2 years ago was a rescue from a litter of kittens, and we know that a large male Siamese was the father. I kept Bonkers and my parents kept two of the same litter. Mine ended up affectionate, theirs were less so.