My cat is now 18 years old and has always enjoyed going out and about using her cat flap. Over the last couple of months she has spent more and more time at a neighbour who has 2 of her own cats. I dont have a problem with this but it does mean that I rarely see her now. She is the happiest cat I know, purring constantly and drooling when she sits on my lap for a stroke on the odd occasions she does come home.
I did start bringing her home and locking her in the house overnight then unlocking her her cat flap first thing in the morning, but she became very upset by this, spending all night clawing at doors and 'howling' to go out. Obviously I couldn't let this go on as it would have made her very unhappy and possibly shortened her life.
I really dont know the best thing to do. I just want her to be happy, and I dont think forcing her to stay in will make her happy. Her cat flap is open 24 hours a day again now, so she can come and go as she chooses, but I guess that at the moment she chooses to go rather the come.
What would other people do in the situation?
I did start bringing her home and locking her in the house overnight then unlocking her her cat flap first thing in the morning, but she became very upset by this, spending all night clawing at doors and 'howling' to go out. Obviously I couldn't let this go on as it would have made her very unhappy and possibly shortened her life.
I really dont know the best thing to do. I just want her to be happy, and I dont think forcing her to stay in will make her happy. Her cat flap is open 24 hours a day again now, so she can come and go as she chooses, but I guess that at the moment she chooses to go rather the come.
What would other people do in the situation?