Originally Posted by GoldenKitty45
I don't see why you need to write up a pre-nup or co-owning contract with a girlfriend. I'd question the relationship if you need this.
Actually, I think an agreement on who gets the cat if the relationship ends would be a great idea. People should be concerned enough about their pets to think about their pet's future. This could include, who gets the pet if the relationship ends, who becomes care giver if the primary owner is too ill or away, or in worst case - death.
As for taking the cat back and forth, some cats are more social. Some like meeting people and riding in cars. It would probably be best to get a very well adjusted kitten, 12-16 weeks with the mother at least, and teach it to like being in a car and harness training.
But it wouldn't be a good idea to constantly take it back and forth, there would have to be one place that was primarily it's home.
How far apart do you and the gf live from each other? Same town? different cities or even states?