She is about 12 weeks old now, perhaps 13. She is sweeeeet and lovely, we just adore her. BUT: 2 times now she has pooped on our bed, on the same spot both times, and on dh's side, even!!! That is soooo bad!! He's not much of an animal person. He doesn't dislike her, but doesn't have fuzzy feelings about her either. He's protective of our animals and would never dream of hurting them or being mean in any way. But she does seem a little unsure of him. He's a very calm person, by the way, with a soft voice.
The first time was a few days ago and it was diarreah, which I thought was due to eating too much of our adult cat's food. So I figured she had had an innocent accident. After that her poo has been normal, formed. And then today I saw formed poo on that same spot, so I don't know what to make of that. This can not have been a simple accident. She's been using her litterbox just fine otherwise. And the first time it happened it was on top of a heavy comforter, and that's been in the wash. So today there were just the sheets, so I don't think she could have smelled anything from last time it happened. I know they tend to go back to urine spots, but I've not heard about poo.
Any ideas of what this may indicate? Is it a mental disturbance, or her perhaps feeling uneasy around dh and this is a way to show it? Or illness? In which case I would have thought it would have happened in other areas as well.
I am feeling so bad about this, she seems to be the "perfect" cat in every way, but this I cannot deal with if it's going to continue on. The kids absolutely love her, too.
Help! What can I do???
The first time was a few days ago and it was diarreah, which I thought was due to eating too much of our adult cat's food. So I figured she had had an innocent accident. After that her poo has been normal, formed. And then today I saw formed poo on that same spot, so I don't know what to make of that. This can not have been a simple accident. She's been using her litterbox just fine otherwise. And the first time it happened it was on top of a heavy comforter, and that's been in the wash. So today there were just the sheets, so I don't think she could have smelled anything from last time it happened. I know they tend to go back to urine spots, but I've not heard about poo.
Any ideas of what this may indicate? Is it a mental disturbance, or her perhaps feeling uneasy around dh and this is a way to show it? Or illness? In which case I would have thought it would have happened in other areas as well.
I am feeling so bad about this, she seems to be the "perfect" cat in every way, but this I cannot deal with if it's going to continue on. The kids absolutely love her, too.
Help! What can I do???