I sent this message to a girl I know, who asked for two kittens that Lily had who keeps asking about the kittens and when she can get them:
Whatever.
I'm so angry/hurt. These kittens are my responsibility and I take that very seriously, and obviously some people who think they're "a dime a dozen" don't.
I posted this in my online journal and my friend Ali said "you're being nuts". THEN said this:Hey!!! About kittens...questions....
I'm having a hard time deciding what to do with said kittens.
I just have a couple of questions for you.
You wanted two are they to stay together?
Here is why I ask. I have Pookie...who is adorable and probably my favorite, but the most connected to her mother. Her mother, who does *NOT* get along with my Sophie. I've tried everything, they're just not getting along.
Now, Lily isn't a kitten, but she can't possibly be more than a year old, she's a small cat who happened to have kittens.
So if they were staying together, I was going to ask if you could take Lily and her baby.
Now here's the other problem, obviously I'm extremely attatched to Lily...but I think she'd get along very well anywhere, she is a very very loving cat. I'm just starting to not be able to deal with the squabbling between her and Sophie.
I'm certainly not giving Lily away...unless it were to someone with one of her babies.
So that's why I wanted a little on your situation.
ALSO, I wanted to make sure we're on the same page about declawing, because I don't allow it. There are many reasons and many people that find it inhumane and I could offer you many links.
This was more of a vent than anything because as the tiime nears, I'm not knowing what to do , so I wanted your input and to see if you taking Lily and Pookie was a possibility. Handling an older cat and a baby kitten together would also be much easier.
I'm so angry right now I want to throw something at the wall and break it!!!!!!! I think I'm being perfectly reasonable....if anything, I'm not going HARD ENOUGH by making her sign a contract and such.You're going a little overboard. I know what it is to be protective, because my parents, and therefore I, bred show dogs as well as pets for my entire life. We had guidelines on the well-being of the dogs.
However, these are cats, which are a dime a dozen, and telling people what you will and will not "allow".. I would honestly tell you to go to hell and find one elsewhere, even though I don't particularly agree with declawing either.
But, that's me.
Also.. the rest of it was pretty much fine, and it's nice that you do care about them.. I guess it was just the wording of that part that turned me off to it all.
Whatever.
I'm so angry/hurt. These kittens are my responsibility and I take that very seriously, and obviously some people who think they're "a dime a dozen" don't.