and its impossible to get him to the vet at the moment. He's having trouble controlling his bowels. He going places other then the litter box. At first we thought he just didn't like to share with my other cat, so we went and got him his own litter box. Yet he's still not using it. When we got him he had ringworms, we treated him and he know longer has them, but he still the problems. He has a torn up and puss on his rectum. And it has gotten worse tonight what should I do?