I have a 10 year old Persian Chinchilla (Mishufu, mainly a lapcat.) and a 8 month old Persian Flamepoint (Baccio, playful as can be). They only recently met about a month and a half ago. Now the older one (Mishufu) has always disliked tussling with any other cat. He's OK with giving chase and being chased so long as there is no tackling. He's a wuss. The last cat who he lived with outweighed him by 11 lbs so he never stood a chance against him. Over the year Mishu developed the habit of meowing as if he was fighting the other cat off while the other cat was just trying to play a bit rough. Unfortunately for Mishu, the new kitty doesnt react to his meowing and doesnt let up sometimes causing Mishufu to go into a series of hissing and unhappy looks. The younger one is a badass with no fear. He messes with the dogs in the house (havent introduced Mishu to the aggressive 1 of the two dogs yet, so he's still in the 1 room) and has never been scared of people. The complete opposite of Mishufu if you will.
My question to you folks is how can I tell and what can I do if Baccio is being way too aggressive with Mishufu? He means well, but I'm afraid Mishufu may be getting way too frustrated to do anything in his own defense. Mishufu has never bit or scratched anyone or anything so it's hard to tell just how upset he is. I dont want him to be living a miserable life feeling as if he's always pestered. I dont want to scold Baccio because he is just playing, but is playing in a relentlessly aggressive way with another cat grounds for me to step in? Should I just let them sort it out among themselves?
I'm confused.
P.S. I'll try and capture them on video and post a youtube link here of 1 of their showdowns so you all can see what I'm dealing with. It can get a bit noisy (Mishufu makes all the noise).
My question to you folks is how can I tell and what can I do if Baccio is being way too aggressive with Mishufu? He means well, but I'm afraid Mishufu may be getting way too frustrated to do anything in his own defense. Mishufu has never bit or scratched anyone or anything so it's hard to tell just how upset he is. I dont want him to be living a miserable life feeling as if he's always pestered. I dont want to scold Baccio because he is just playing, but is playing in a relentlessly aggressive way with another cat grounds for me to step in? Should I just let them sort it out among themselves?
I'm confused.
P.S. I'll try and capture them on video and post a youtube link here of 1 of their showdowns so you all can see what I'm dealing with. It can get a bit noisy (Mishufu makes all the noise).