i have three cats
one was adopted less than 2 mos ago
now i know they need time to adjust to each other but most of the time they are fine, and will even play together, which i didn't expect to happen so soon
the problem is my boy Sheldon. he was like this with my old girl Mickie who passed away in March-
he couldn't stand it when i gave her attention- he would get inbetween us (literally) and sometimes he would try to lash out at her, but she was the undisputed Top cat, so he always backed off quickly and never hurt her
but now, i am trying to make the new girl, Raven, feel welcome - she's been a bit stand offish but lately she wants some petting and brushing,
and while i've tried to do this only when he is not around...
i can't ignore her all the time. i mean, its not too common for one to be awake and the other asleep, they are generally all awake at the same time
now he is attacking her.
and she fights back, but he wont' back off
that riles up my other girl, who wants to watch but she ends up getting swatted, too because she startles them
and its just awful! fur flyng everywhere!
tonite i found a nail stuck in the new girl's skin!! it was Sheldon's for sure, he is the youngest and has the thinnest and sharpest nails.
any suggestions?
this most recent time, i put them all in separate rooms to cool down
but later on the same day, he was gonna go after her again, so i distracted him- which seems to me to only reward this behavoir
(oh, he only attacks her when she is sleeping!!!)
he is a very clingy cat.
help!!
i dont like my kids to fight like this!!
one was adopted less than 2 mos ago
now i know they need time to adjust to each other but most of the time they are fine, and will even play together, which i didn't expect to happen so soon
the problem is my boy Sheldon. he was like this with my old girl Mickie who passed away in March-
he couldn't stand it when i gave her attention- he would get inbetween us (literally) and sometimes he would try to lash out at her, but she was the undisputed Top cat, so he always backed off quickly and never hurt her
but now, i am trying to make the new girl, Raven, feel welcome - she's been a bit stand offish but lately she wants some petting and brushing,
and while i've tried to do this only when he is not around...
i can't ignore her all the time. i mean, its not too common for one to be awake and the other asleep, they are generally all awake at the same time
now he is attacking her.
and she fights back, but he wont' back off
that riles up my other girl, who wants to watch but she ends up getting swatted, too because she startles them
and its just awful! fur flyng everywhere!
tonite i found a nail stuck in the new girl's skin!! it was Sheldon's for sure, he is the youngest and has the thinnest and sharpest nails.
any suggestions?
this most recent time, i put them all in separate rooms to cool down
but later on the same day, he was gonna go after her again, so i distracted him- which seems to me to only reward this behavoir
(oh, he only attacks her when she is sleeping!!!)
he is a very clingy cat.
help!!
i dont like my kids to fight like this!!