Hello everyone. I am in a situation right now and trying to get a little insight on the best thing to do. Here is the situation:
I have had my cat, Abbey (gray/white/blk tabbey), for about 5 years since she was a kitten. All 5 of the years I was living at my parents house and that is where Abbey has grown up (indoor cat only). She follows me around everywhere I go in the house and sleeps with me at night. There is also a full bread Himalayan cat in the house and a lahsa apso dog as well, these 2 really keep to themselves and dont associate with Abbey too much. However, my sister got a cat about a year ago, Mojo. He was a black kitten, who is now a very pretty, active cat.
Mojo and Abbey are not extremly close, but you will find them laying with each other every now and then and they clean each other. Mojo like to play alot and Abbey hates that. He chases her around while she runs and hisses at him and hides under things away from him.
I just got married August 4th and moved out of my parents house on July 25th. I am trying to get settled in the house before I brought Abbey over. I just went out and bought all brand new cat stuff for her yesterday, to bring her to the new place this weekend. Here is my question:
I want to do what is best for Abbey. Naturally, I want to take her with me to my new place, my wife and I LOVE Abbey. However, because I love her, I want to do what is in her best interest, not mine.
Therefore, would Abbey be better off if I took her to our new apartment and she lived with my wife and myself. We have no other pets, so she would get all of the attention. However, while we are at work she would be left by herself with no other pets around.
OR... Would she be better off with my parents? There she has the company of the 2 other cats and the dog, while nobody is home. Plus, since that is her "home" would she be better off? My parents LOVE her. They are torn about the possibility of her leaving. They spoil her with attention and even spoil her with table food every now and then. I know Abbey would be extremly taken care of and spoiled with my parents. Plus, I have already been away from home a month and a half, so she maybe starting to get used to the fact that I am not around much any more. I see her about 2-3 times a week when I go see my parents.
Any ideas? Comments? Suggestions?
Thanks for all of your help and insight.
I have had my cat, Abbey (gray/white/blk tabbey), for about 5 years since she was a kitten. All 5 of the years I was living at my parents house and that is where Abbey has grown up (indoor cat only). She follows me around everywhere I go in the house and sleeps with me at night. There is also a full bread Himalayan cat in the house and a lahsa apso dog as well, these 2 really keep to themselves and dont associate with Abbey too much. However, my sister got a cat about a year ago, Mojo. He was a black kitten, who is now a very pretty, active cat.
Mojo and Abbey are not extremly close, but you will find them laying with each other every now and then and they clean each other. Mojo like to play alot and Abbey hates that. He chases her around while she runs and hisses at him and hides under things away from him.
I just got married August 4th and moved out of my parents house on July 25th. I am trying to get settled in the house before I brought Abbey over. I just went out and bought all brand new cat stuff for her yesterday, to bring her to the new place this weekend. Here is my question:
I want to do what is best for Abbey. Naturally, I want to take her with me to my new place, my wife and I LOVE Abbey. However, because I love her, I want to do what is in her best interest, not mine.
Therefore, would Abbey be better off if I took her to our new apartment and she lived with my wife and myself. We have no other pets, so she would get all of the attention. However, while we are at work she would be left by herself with no other pets around.
OR... Would she be better off with my parents? There she has the company of the 2 other cats and the dog, while nobody is home. Plus, since that is her "home" would she be better off? My parents LOVE her. They are torn about the possibility of her leaving. They spoil her with attention and even spoil her with table food every now and then. I know Abbey would be extremly taken care of and spoiled with my parents. Plus, I have already been away from home a month and a half, so she maybe starting to get used to the fact that I am not around much any more. I see her about 2-3 times a week when I go see my parents.
Any ideas? Comments? Suggestions?
Thanks for all of your help and insight.