Please try out the softpaws first. It sounds as if you're going to do that and that's fantastic.
Declawing can have a lot of side effects like capt_jordi mentioned. The surgery involves mutilating the cat's paws. Cats walk on their toes and the first joint of the toes is cut off. It makes them more likely to get arthritis as they get older. The prodecure is very painful and some cats develop an aversion to litterbox use after it because it hurts their paws to scratch in the litterbox. Others become very skittish and nervous and never return to being the lovely cat they were before. Some also start biting and even biting pre-emptively because they feel so insecure. Some become what their owners describe as 'more loving' in the few weeks after the surgery but usually what is happening is that the cat is in pain and confused and regresses developmentally back into acting like a young kitten and becomes very dependent on their human. This can then lead to separation anxiety and other mental problems when the human can't be around the cat 24/7
Then there's potential phantom pain, lameness and and claw regrowth etc.
This doesn't happen to every declawed cat. Far from it, but it can and does happen.
I've had a bunch of scratches from my cat, either from over enthuastic play or from her getting scared while I'm holding her and she kicks off with her back feet to get away.
I see that as a normal part of choosing to share my life with a cat. It can be really lessened by trimming the claws and then if that's not enough to add softpaws on.
Cats are very rarely agressive towards humans, any 'attack' by a cat is usually a bored young cat wanting to play. That type of play agression is not an attack and can easily be handled by playing enough with the cat using toys and then using behavoural training to discourage the play attacks if they've become routine. It can be a bit of work but gets easier as the cat gets older.
Cats are socially mature at around 2 years old so until then you'll still be dealing with the very energetic kitten type behaviour although it depends on the cat and some cats never slow down.
Declawing can have a lot of side effects like capt_jordi mentioned. The surgery involves mutilating the cat's paws. Cats walk on their toes and the first joint of the toes is cut off. It makes them more likely to get arthritis as they get older. The prodecure is very painful and some cats develop an aversion to litterbox use after it because it hurts their paws to scratch in the litterbox. Others become very skittish and nervous and never return to being the lovely cat they were before. Some also start biting and even biting pre-emptively because they feel so insecure. Some become what their owners describe as 'more loving' in the few weeks after the surgery but usually what is happening is that the cat is in pain and confused and regresses developmentally back into acting like a young kitten and becomes very dependent on their human. This can then lead to separation anxiety and other mental problems when the human can't be around the cat 24/7
Then there's potential phantom pain, lameness and and claw regrowth etc.
This doesn't happen to every declawed cat. Far from it, but it can and does happen.
I've had a bunch of scratches from my cat, either from over enthuastic play or from her getting scared while I'm holding her and she kicks off with her back feet to get away.
I see that as a normal part of choosing to share my life with a cat. It can be really lessened by trimming the claws and then if that's not enough to add softpaws on.
Cats are very rarely agressive towards humans, any 'attack' by a cat is usually a bored young cat wanting to play. That type of play agression is not an attack and can easily be handled by playing enough with the cat using toys and then using behavoural training to discourage the play attacks if they've become routine. It can be a bit of work but gets easier as the cat gets older.
Cats are socially mature at around 2 years old so until then you'll still be dealing with the very energetic kitten type behaviour although it depends on the cat and some cats never slow down.