Alrighty.
It wasn't until I was talking to another volunteer about this that it clicked.
I have 5 cats, all male, all neutered.
They used to always get along. BEFORE Cappy came along. The 4 boys would pile on top of each other and groom each other and no one ever fought.
But since Cappy has been about... maybe 7 or 8 months old, I can't remember when it started, he has been really mean with the other cats. I always thought that maybe it was because he didn't have a feline mom to show him not to be too rough.. but he played fine with the cats previously. (Cappy and his 2 litter mates came to me at 12 days old, I hand raised them and found the other 2 homes)
Anyway. Now I'm thinking he is fighting to be the top cat int he household.. that is the only explanation that I can come up with. He will stalk the other cats.. mainly Orion.. who seems to be the lowest on the hierarchy.
But he makes the other cats scream and hiss and fight back to a point. But he never lets up. We have to remove him from the situation he started. Then usually that gets Gordito riled up and he starts picking on the other cats.
I want to try the feliway.. but at like $60 for each diffuser (I'd need at least 3. maybe more), I can't put out that money at this very time. I want it, but it will have to wait a little while.
Is it a dominance thing or is he just being a brat?
Should I be separating them or let them stick it out? I just can't stand listening to poor Orion howl as Cappy, who is smaller than him, pin him to the ground and hurt him.
It wasn't until I was talking to another volunteer about this that it clicked.
I have 5 cats, all male, all neutered.
They used to always get along. BEFORE Cappy came along. The 4 boys would pile on top of each other and groom each other and no one ever fought.
But since Cappy has been about... maybe 7 or 8 months old, I can't remember when it started, he has been really mean with the other cats. I always thought that maybe it was because he didn't have a feline mom to show him not to be too rough.. but he played fine with the cats previously. (Cappy and his 2 litter mates came to me at 12 days old, I hand raised them and found the other 2 homes)
Anyway. Now I'm thinking he is fighting to be the top cat int he household.. that is the only explanation that I can come up with. He will stalk the other cats.. mainly Orion.. who seems to be the lowest on the hierarchy.
But he makes the other cats scream and hiss and fight back to a point. But he never lets up. We have to remove him from the situation he started. Then usually that gets Gordito riled up and he starts picking on the other cats.
I want to try the feliway.. but at like $60 for each diffuser (I'd need at least 3. maybe more), I can't put out that money at this very time. I want it, but it will have to wait a little while.
Is it a dominance thing or is he just being a brat?
Should I be separating them or let them stick it out? I just can't stand listening to poor Orion howl as Cappy, who is smaller than him, pin him to the ground and hurt him.