The DH and I got into another fight today about him not doing anything around the house. He thinks just because I don't have a job that I should do it all. I'm tired of arguing so I decided to make a list of what I do down to the smallest thing, like throwing away one of his cigarette packs. This way he can visably see all the things I do around there. I don't know if this will work but I'm at my wits end.