So why is it that you don't feel that way about him?
He obviously loves you (as probably does everyone who has ever met you )
He obviously is very much attracked to you, and loves you...whether it be as a best friend or as lover.
Sometimes we try so hard to look for what we need/want....that we tend to overlook the obvious.
If he loves and cares for you THAT much...maybe he IS the one.
But if YOU don't feel the same....then he isn't.
These deep feelings have to go both ways.
I guess I should just shut up now, Blue...but I wanted to give you my opinion, and I hope that's okay.