What Women/Men Want?

Originally posted by Catarina77777
Here's my hunk of burnin' love...we are so in love!

: love:

Well, that took care of one page...sorry 'bout that! lOL Phil Hernon holds the title for Mr. USA 1995...other than that...he's nothing less than almost perfect for me

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Wow Catarina what a gorgeous man !!

Dear Anne,
This is such a wild story, I met Phil four years ago at a bodybuilding show in California. I flew out to see my friend Paul Dillett get his pro card...he won the North American that year. Anyway, Phil was with his girl, I only met him briefly.

I got IM'd almost about 2 months ago; he said "Hi"
I said "Do you like cats?" lol...so, we chatted and I said you're not Phil Hernon! NO WAY...well, he's tryin to prove to me that he was...I said..okay, here's something that you'd know for sure...When did Paul Dillett get his pro card and what show did he win...he responded immediately with "THE NORTH AMERICAN"! I couldn't argue with that..right? He asked me if I was there...I said, "Of course I'm his best friend"...He said "CATARINA?? Are you the girl from Florida"??? LOL...no lie!!!!! So, this is how we got back together, online!!!! I'll be visiting Arizona (that's where he lives) depending upon my health which I will tell you eventually. I don't really know what's goin on ....so, I promise to let you know. Anyway, I know we haven't been together at all, however our phone bills exceed our mortgages. lol...I honestly can say I do love him...but, I know most would think I'm wacked...that's ok. I have 6 cats that love me...they think I'm wacked too.
:laughing:
Love,

Originally posted by SpikeAdelika
I must just add that GREAT SEX can do no harm.

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Well, you're absolutely right!! See, this just confirms my love for Phil...we haven't even had sex and we get along just like "peas and carrots" ....Forrest Gump

Since I've spoke to Phil so much...I've learned a great deal about him...it's kinda getting through all the junk...now, the only part left is to handle it! I'm getting to be more understanding of people's faults; defects...I have my own! However, they better love animals...or I can be a real :witch: (replace that "w" with a "b"!

By the way...how are you coming along with your pregancy kitten? You're hubby is very good looking too!

Wow! What a story Catarina! You know, I really do believe such relationship can turn out to be the best. It's like you're becoming best friends before bringing anything physical into it!

My little sister, just 18 years old, met someone online and they chatted and then talked on the phone for 4 months before meeting (in a safe and supervised environment of course). That was 6 months ago and so far they are inseperable. She's moving in with him in a couple of months, once she finishes her exams. They are very happy together and have the best sort of communication and caring for each other.

You gotta keep us posted on this one! This is so exciting! By the way, you never said what he said about loving cats... Maybe he could join us here...

Spike, that's one handsome fellow you've got there! Where was the photo taken? Doesn't look like England to me...

Anne, That pic was taken last June when we were in Spain. It's great out there and quite reasonably priced aswell.

Dear Anne,

Wow! I'm so happy for your sister!!! OMG...I'm almost speechless thank the Lord I can type. Talk about excited! Her story has just made me feel so confident that something like this could actually work. He is such a good person and "YES HE LOVES CATS"! He tells me all his faults...it's so funny, like he's getting me prepared to be be with him...yikes! The love we have developed online obviously has been like no other than I've ever had. It's so nice to be able to relax and talk with someone and them not expect anything physical from you. As I have HAD IT with that routine. Phil is a Christian also. We share many of the same likes and dislikes; his morals appear to be very high, his dad's a dentist who is so wonderful, he had sent an email to me, due to something I'm dealing with right now healthwise and he explained some things because he had to go through this himself (I'm sorry for being vague...it's only because I'm not sure what's going on myself; I don't want to worry anyone) It's going to be very interesting when we meet for the first time...I have no idea what I'll say. How about "Do you like cats"? He told me later on in our conversations; when he saw that first reply popping up before his eyes...he knew right then and there his search for his true love was over! I'm such a pushover for romance... Jeeez, I sure sound like a schoolgirl in love for the very first time! I better stop, I'm embarrassing myself!

Love,

[Edited by Catarina77777 on 05-10-2001 at 10:00 AM]

I'm so happy for you! everyone deserves to find that!

Oh Blue....I have some major thoughts to say on this subject....but let me make a few comments first...


Spike....what an attractive man you have!!!!!

And Catarina...I had NO idea you had such a wonderful, sexy, and most important of all... christian man!!!!!!!! He is adorable!!!!

Blue.... you asked what we want from a relationship....well to be perfectly honest...even though I have been married before (this is my second husband).... I don't think I have ever really gotten what I want and need from a relationship.
But I am almost 36, so.... I don't want to look anymore... my hubby is a good man, and treats me pretty well, for the most part, and I do love him, even though he really has no clue who I really am. he's not much of a talker, and doesn't care much to hear abvout my life outside the home.
It is so important to me to have someone to share all the moments of my life that they might not find very interesting, but I do....doesn't that mean anything????????????

What would be important to me in a relationship...should I be your age, and still have a chance, would be the communication....and having alot of likes in common...like things you love to do...he also loves to do...
and even if he has no interest at all in what you like to do, he still does them with you, simply because he knows how much it means to YOU!

And of course vice versa.

This is such a hard subject for me.......

I love my husband, but he is so different from the man I thought I married seven years ago....I suppose that happens.

Blue......All I want from a relationship is mutual trust, understanding, empathy, happiness, companionship, loyalty, love, comfort, nurturing, great sex, communication,

gee...that's all I guess

Dear Airprincess
Thank you so much...are you in a relatonship...did I miss that somewhere? Anyway, either way, we all deserve someone that makes us special....Cause we are...

Love,

I will second that. They have to make you feel special.
And thank you all for liking my man, he is a cutie, I Love Him to bits.

He did the sweetest thing the other day, he bought me flowers, the first time since we met. He put them in a vase and announced that he had made sure they would last by taking each one and crushing the stem. So funny, needless to say they died in 24 hours. I do not know where he got the idea he had to crush the stems not cut them.

I have told you all numerous tidbits about Helen. Yhis picture is of her at 17, the year I first met her. She is now (almost) 22. She admits (even this very day) that we would make the perfect couple, as do I. We can read each other with just a look and speak complete scentences without ever uttering a word. I have NEVER had the kind of connection that she and I have with anyone. Noone knows me better and vice-verca. She is my soul mate and my best friend. I believe, from the deepest recesses of my soul, that she and I will one day take our friendship to a higher, more intimate level. The step wouldn't be too far, since we were intimate not long after she turned 18 and we dated for 9 months. But, now that we are best friends, we really are closer than most lovers. My instinct tells me to just be patient. What I yearn for more than anything will eventually come to pass.

Gee Meeow Man, what a great photograph, she is stunning.

I felt sad when I read your post. I understand perfectly how you can feel the way the you do, but I hate it that you think you don't have a chance of getting what you want out of a relationship. I don't feel like it's ever too late, but I'm not in your shoes. I just wish you felt like you were worth not settling, because you are!!!

I wasn't sure if I should comment at all, because I know it was hard for you to post, and I don't want you to regret opening up to this wonderful group of people.

we all care about you so much, and you have a huge support system right here to help you through anything.

anyway, I wanted you to know that we all think you are wonderful. I hope that I haven't put my foot (mouse?) in my mouth.

Is there a reason why my picture of Philip was deleted? It's not like he was naked. Although, I'm sure if he was, it wouldn't be as repulsive as 90% of the men walking this planet. This has not been my only posting deleted...three in total and I have not been given a reason as to why. I've never said a filthy word, nor have I crossed someone without explaining my feelings diplomatically. Which I believe has been once since my membership here. I was requested by a member to post another...so, here it is...Without sounding paranoid, I do feel unwelcomed by someone.




[Edited by Catarina77777 on 05-11-2001 at 11:26 AM]

Originally posted by Catarina77777
Here's my hunk of burnin' love...we are so in love!

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Catarina,

I can still see it just fine, maybe you missed it? I dont
think posts get deleted around here, especially without telling
the poster about it... i think they get edited only.

[Edited by blue on 05-11-2001 at 06:30 PM]

Wow Catarina, I saw the first picture of your hottie.. Are you sure it was deleted? I like you, and hope you don't feel unwanted by someone.

cant you see my post, swalker? i just reposted that first
picture, maybe it's not showing up?

Catarina, like i said, i can still see it, so, i dont know
what's going on :confused2

I can still see the photo of your orginal post. Not sure what the problem is but I went back to page 1 just to check and it was there for me

Cat,

He's one hot dude! Does he have a brother, uncle, father, cousin, friend???

Catarina...I can see the first picture of Phil just fine...and now there are two...which is okay since he is such a cuttie!

But...I don't understand why you think your posts have been deleted. They havent been....I checked...Anne has a rule that if us Moderators delete something, we should tell her about it and why we did it in the moderators lounge...and there is nothing there about deleting any of your posts....none of us would do that to you!!! We love you!!! I am so sorry and worried that you feel this way.

Please tell me...even if it is in private, by my e-mail, who you think does not want you here. this is really really really bothering me.