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I wear low pig tails on occation and will be 30 on sat... In my case have my hair back makes me look about 20 when it is down I easily pass for 16
I just tuned 28 and I can't decide if they actually make me look younger of if they just make me look like I'm trying to look younger.Originally Posted by sharky
I wear low pig tails on occation and will be 30 on sat... In my case have my hair back makes me look about 20 when it is down I easily pass for 16
I don't do it often enough for the part to become "permanent" so I'm not too worried about that and I like to think I look youthful!Originally Posted by GoldenKitty45
I don't know. IMO they shouldn't really be wore as it tends to split the hairs in the back into that part which is very hard to get out and grow normal. Your hair tends to "part" in the back whether or not you have them in.
But I would say if you are under 30 it would be ok; after then it would just look weird IMO. Depends on how "youthful" you look in your 20's.
Oh man I wish I had your outlook!!!!!!Originally Posted by Sadie's Mom
My philosophy (and, girls, you'll get this once you turn 40) is - if you don't like what you see here, look away! I don't have the time of day to care or worry about what others say or think of me. If you don't like it....too bad.
OUCH thatâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s harsh! If youâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]re responding to my post above, Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m a bit offended. But, if Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m mistaken and reading too much into your post, my apologies.Originally Posted by twstychik
See I have a personal interest in how I look. I prefer to look nice because it makes me feel good... not because it makes others like me or approve.
LOL!!!!!Originally Posted by Zissou'sMom
I like pigtails and will do them on occassion, but sometimes they feel too... I guess the most I will say is naughty, as it would relate to Britney Spear's school uniform video...
I'm sorry, it wasn't meant as harsh and I don't feel it was. I LOVE your stance and happen to share it... that's what I was trying to say. I like to look nice for myself and not because I'm worried about what the world think of me. I actually made that post because of what DaniMarie said below... and again, it wasn't meant as harsh or confrontational... I was simply expressing my views. Now, I'd hate to see this thread digress into who's offending whom.Originally Posted by Sadie's Mom
OUCH thatâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s harsh! If youâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]re responding to my post above, Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m a bit offended. But, if Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m mistaken and reading too much into your post, my apologies.
To clarify my position - it's not that I don't care what I look like. It's just that I don't care what you (society as a collective whole) think of the way I look.
In fact, I take GREAT PRIDE in the way I look, and I will toot my own horn and say I am fabulous at 40 (dh says Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m more attractive now (vs in my teens and 20s when I was modelling) because I have a sense of accomplishment, power and self confidence about me)! I'm at an age in my life where I don't give a rat's azz whether or not you like my hair color, my choice of clothes or the shoes Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m wearing. Bottom line, I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t need societyâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s approval to feel good about myself. I feel good about myself just by being myself – whether Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m wearing makeup or not.
Beauty is not about cosmetics and wearing makeup or having your hair in a ponytail or pigtails, itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s about knowing who you are and loving yourself for your faults and your strengths. Itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s about looking in the mirror, seeing yourself au natural, and saying “hello gorgeous!â€
You'll get there some day.Originally Posted by DaniMarie
Oh man I wish I had your outlook!!!!!!
I'm getting better, but I do worry quite a bit still about what others say and think!!!
Props to you for that wonderful attitude!!!
Ya, maybe that's why they just "don't feel right" wearing them to work sometimes.Originally Posted by Zissou'sMom
I like pigtails and will do them on occassion, but sometimes they feel too... I guess the most I will say is naughty, as it would relate to Britney Spear's school uniform video...