I'm so very sorry to hear of this unexpected and shocking loss to your family. My deepest condolensces to you and all of your family as you deal with his passing and figure out how to keep living with such a large part of your life so suddenly gone. Losing a parent is always difficult, but you will find a way to keep going even though it takes some time to find that path.
There will come a day
when your tears of sorrow
will softly flow into tears of remembrance...
and your heart will begin to heal itself...
and grieving will be interrupted by episodes of joy...
and you will hear the whisper of hope.
There will come a day
when you will welcome the tears of remembrance...
as a sunshower of the soul...
a turning of the tide...
a promise of peace.
There will come a day when you will...
risk loving...
go on believing...
and treasure the tears of remembering.
I haven't lost my dad, but it's been 6 yrs. on the 28th, I lost my husband,
my sons' father, he was 39, heart attack while driving! I'm so sorry!!! my son
still has moments, his grief was pretty hard on me, let alone my own! You are
in my prayers!!!! Just keep looking up, everytime you feel really down,look
up, to heaven and pray!!!! Thinking of you ! Monique
My deepest sympathy, I am so sorry for your loss!! Unfortunately, I know exactly what you are going through, I lost my dad, also in 1999. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!!