Hey guys! I have a question and I really could use some ideas/suggestions on how to really be there for one of my good friends right now. She's going through a really tough time at the moment. She just found out her husband is being unfaithful (again) and I think this time it's ending their marriage. They've been together 9 years and have two little girls. She is obviously just to pieces over this. He told her he doesn't love her anymore and other things. So my question would be- for those of you who have maybe gone through this before (or even if you haven't but just want to share some good advice!) what did friends do during that time to help you that you really appreciated??
What would be the best way for me to lend a shoulder or just be there for her if she needs me. She lives down the street from me, so i'm planning on making dinner for her several nights so she doesn't have to fuss over cooking and everything else. I also told her to feel free to drop her kids off and i'd watch them for her if she needed to get out for a bit and go shopping/etc. I also offered up Colin to help her if she needs anything repaired/fixed around the house. And she has my number if she needs ANYTHING and knows she's welcome anytime day or night at our place if need be.
My question would be- what else can i do to try and be supportive of her and help her through this rough time in her life??? Thanks guys!!
What would be the best way for me to lend a shoulder or just be there for her if she needs me. She lives down the street from me, so i'm planning on making dinner for her several nights so she doesn't have to fuss over cooking and everything else. I also told her to feel free to drop her kids off and i'd watch them for her if she needed to get out for a bit and go shopping/etc. I also offered up Colin to help her if she needs anything repaired/fixed around the house. And she has my number if she needs ANYTHING and knows she's welcome anytime day or night at our place if need be.
My question would be- what else can i do to try and be supportive of her and help her through this rough time in her life??? Thanks guys!!