It end up being the new neighbors( who ended up getting her children taken from her not long after) behind us...this was the end of October...I brought her back to them told them where she'd be if they were looking...she was back 2 days.
She was afraid to be touched on the head for 2 years...it took her years to warm up to me, she prefers men...well these days she loves everyone.
Now she cuddles, plays, purrs, asks to be petted on the head...and is the biggest bum/garbage digger/food thief ever.
Here my first female kitty Georgie Porgie