Hi all, I'm new here and just wanted to find out some information about one of my cats.
I recieved Tags from a friend of mine. I don't know where she got her from, so I have no idea what her parents were like.
Ever since she had come home to me, she was by my side every second. She cried if I was not around, and was always wrapped around the back of my neck.. asleep on my shoulders. She'd sleep on my chest at night, or cuddled into my neck. She was the most lovable kitty.
Well, I had not gotten her fixed in time - and my dad was/still is careless about the cats going outside. She finds any way that she can to escape. Well, she had ended up getting pregnant when she was about 9 months old
I know, I know. I should have been a bit more responsible about it, but she was spayed immediately after her litter.
The reason I explained that part is because once she had gone into heat, and had gotten pregnant, her personality took a COMPLETE change. She no longer wanted you to touch her. She would hide a lot, growl when picked up, heck she'd even swat at your face if you weren't careful. I was hoping it may have just been the hormones from pregnancy. When she came closer to giving birth and once I returned from a vacation, she followed me everywhere and never wanted to be left alone. She'd come when I whistled for her (she still does to a certain degree), and was this way all up until she weaned her kittens. Once she started telling them their limits, she turned back into the "feral cat".
To this day, she is the same way. She doesn't like human contact. I try to keep her indoors, but she attacks my other cats when they aren't even near her, and she's just not happy inside. I try loving on her, but she doesn't want any part of it. On a very RARE occassion, she will come up to you and want to be scratched. But that lasts for maybe a minute at the most, and she runs off hissing and growling. However, if she gets scared (she is terrified of thunder and is immediately brought in when it storms) or isn't feeling well, she cries for my attention, but the minute I touch her she gets nasty. I can call her outside, and she'll happily come to me. She's playful outside, and a bit more "attentive" towards you. She will follow me around the block while I walk the dogs, and meows if I get too far.
I'm sorry this is so long and drawn out, but here's my real question:
Why do you think she's so reserved even though while she was a kitten, she was handled nearly 24/7? The best way I can describe her personality is that of a feral cat. Do you think it may be possible her parents were feral? I love her to death, as she's my baby kitty. She's approx 1 1/2 years old now. She's just so miserable indoors and unhappy, but she's slightly different outside.
Any advice, or input is appreciated. My knowledge on behavior lies mostly with dogs, but my soft spot is for cats. Hehe.
Thanks
I recieved Tags from a friend of mine. I don't know where she got her from, so I have no idea what her parents were like.
Ever since she had come home to me, she was by my side every second. She cried if I was not around, and was always wrapped around the back of my neck.. asleep on my shoulders. She'd sleep on my chest at night, or cuddled into my neck. She was the most lovable kitty.
Well, I had not gotten her fixed in time - and my dad was/still is careless about the cats going outside. She finds any way that she can to escape. Well, she had ended up getting pregnant when she was about 9 months old
The reason I explained that part is because once she had gone into heat, and had gotten pregnant, her personality took a COMPLETE change. She no longer wanted you to touch her. She would hide a lot, growl when picked up, heck she'd even swat at your face if you weren't careful. I was hoping it may have just been the hormones from pregnancy. When she came closer to giving birth and once I returned from a vacation, she followed me everywhere and never wanted to be left alone. She'd come when I whistled for her (she still does to a certain degree), and was this way all up until she weaned her kittens. Once she started telling them their limits, she turned back into the "feral cat".
To this day, she is the same way. She doesn't like human contact. I try to keep her indoors, but she attacks my other cats when they aren't even near her, and she's just not happy inside. I try loving on her, but she doesn't want any part of it. On a very RARE occassion, she will come up to you and want to be scratched. But that lasts for maybe a minute at the most, and she runs off hissing and growling. However, if she gets scared (she is terrified of thunder and is immediately brought in when it storms) or isn't feeling well, she cries for my attention, but the minute I touch her she gets nasty. I can call her outside, and she'll happily come to me. She's playful outside, and a bit more "attentive" towards you. She will follow me around the block while I walk the dogs, and meows if I get too far.
I'm sorry this is so long and drawn out, but here's my real question:
Why do you think she's so reserved even though while she was a kitten, she was handled nearly 24/7? The best way I can describe her personality is that of a feral cat. Do you think it may be possible her parents were feral? I love her to death, as she's my baby kitty. She's approx 1 1/2 years old now. She's just so miserable indoors and unhappy, but she's slightly different outside.
Any advice, or input is appreciated. My knowledge on behavior lies mostly with dogs, but my soft spot is for cats. Hehe.
Thanks