Ok so yesterday I made a thread that I wanted to adopt another kitty. Now Im not so sure that is a good idea. My older cat Tiger is a 5 year old neutered male and has been having bursts of hostility. At my apartment complex, for some unkinown reason, everyone lets their cats outside. Well in three instances when Tiger has seen cats (2 under our window ledge) he starts screaming, spitting, hissing, slamming himself into the window, tail puffed, hair on his back raised, and giving us caution signs that if we touch him in this state he will attack us too. Last night while I was in bed I heard a large crash into my patio sliding doors (located in our kitchen) i was startled so I went to see what was going on. Tiger had his head between the sliding blinds (patio blinds) and he was slamming himself into the window, hissing, screaming, hair raised on his back and tail poofed. It was dark so I couldnt see outside and I didnt want to approach my spazzing cat. My bf walked over to the patio window (with caution cuz Tiger was still freaking out) and sure enough there was a cat sitting on our patio.
I dont know what to do, this is happening a few times a week because everyone lets their cats outside and Tiger gets insanely hostile when he sees them (heck one jumped up onto our outside window sill while Tiger was sitting on the inside sill, and the window was open... that was a very bad situation). Its sad because all these kitties are drawn to my apartment and very interested in Tiger, but he isnt having it. My bf was actually talking to Tiger (his cat) saying that he needs to chill, that they kitties are outside and not in his territory... Inside is his territory and that outside is a different story... LOL as if Tiger understands that concept.
My older cat is fine with our kitten (they are buddies, though he has freaked on her like that 3 times never hurting her, but the reason he has flipped out on her is because she tends to be too rough when they play), but in that scenario he was gradually introduced to her and didnt have her thrown in his face (they were seperated a few days). Right now a kitten is out of the question
I've never tried feliway and Im considering it now, Im worried because I dont want Tiger to turn on us or for him to hurt himself when he slams into the windows... He really has become a crochity old man.
What to do?
I dont know what to do, this is happening a few times a week because everyone lets their cats outside and Tiger gets insanely hostile when he sees them (heck one jumped up onto our outside window sill while Tiger was sitting on the inside sill, and the window was open... that was a very bad situation). Its sad because all these kitties are drawn to my apartment and very interested in Tiger, but he isnt having it. My bf was actually talking to Tiger (his cat) saying that he needs to chill, that they kitties are outside and not in his territory... Inside is his territory and that outside is a different story... LOL as if Tiger understands that concept.
My older cat is fine with our kitten (they are buddies, though he has freaked on her like that 3 times never hurting her, but the reason he has flipped out on her is because she tends to be too rough when they play), but in that scenario he was gradually introduced to her and didnt have her thrown in his face (they were seperated a few days). Right now a kitten is out of the question
I've never tried feliway and Im considering it now, Im worried because I dont want Tiger to turn on us or for him to hurt himself when he slams into the windows... He really has become a crochity old man.
What to do?