I'm really worried about my Mom and I just don't know what I should do. She has been under a tremendious amount of stress the past month or so and I am afraid she is going to have a nervous breakdown. She literally is the glue that keeps my family together and I see her everyday getting weaker and weaker. It mainly has to do with her job...she is a caretaker for a mentally ill woman. This woman has lots of mental problems, several health problems and is very hard to deal with. Her husband is not much better, but does work during the day and that is why Mom was hired to take care of her. He almost encourages her to be obnoxious at times and unfortunately Mom is the one that has to deal with this for 9 hours a day 5 days a week (not to mention the numerous phone calls she gets everynight). For the past week she has broke down in tears every night when she gets home from work and I just can't stand to see her like this. She has always had a lot of things riding on her shoulders, but this one is just too heavy for her to handle. I've asked her to go to the Doctor and see if they could maybe help her with antidepressants & etc. She has had Shingles once before (a few years ago) when she was really bogged down with stress...and it was one of the most painful things for her to go through. I wouldn't wish that pain on anyone. I just I'm just wondering if I shouldn't call her Doctor and explain what the situation is & see what they can do. Mom keeps telling me that she doesn't have the time or the money or blah-blah-blah...they're all excuses. She thinks she can do this all on her own and I'm worried that she can't do it. She made the comment to me tonight (and that's why I'm posting this) "I really think God is testing me on how much I can handle and I just might fail this test yet.". I've asked her to quit her job and she told me that the money is too good right now & she can't find any other work that will pay her this good. If she'd only understand that it will cost her more in the long run to stick with this...
I'm sorry this is so long...I'm just worried sick about her. What should I do? At least, please say a little prayer for her or keep her in your thoughts. Thank you all for listening and for any suggestions.
Sincerely,
Michelle
I'm sorry this is so long...I'm just worried sick about her. What should I do? At least, please say a little prayer for her or keep her in your thoughts. Thank you all for listening and for any suggestions.
Sincerely,
Michelle