This may be a bit long and I apologize if it is.
I have a good friend, we shall call *Amy*..and I really care alot for her and think alot of her. She is the type to anything, for anyone!!
Anywho-shes been married for 10 yrs(3 kids)....well about 3 yrs ago, she found out her DH was cheating on her. She left him for a few mos and decided to try again.
Well back in May they got into a argument, and he hit her, across the chest, leaving a HUGE bruise!!! She called the cops and he got hauled to jail for 24 hrs, and ever since then they have had a "no contact order"
Well, neither one have been abiding by it and they have been sneaking around seeing each other, right?? Well just yesterday she gets the cell phone bill and sees a few #'s she doesnt recognize, and decides to call one. Come to find out, it is the "woman" he was messing around with before!!!
Needless to say, they havent ever really stopped talking or messing around, and Amy is acting like its no big deal!!
I tell her my opinion, which is, of course not what she wants to hear...but damn, I mean really...one time is bad enough to screw around and she forgave him, but to do it again and with the same woman(which BTW, is also married)....Ugghh....why wont she listen to me???
I dont care how many years they have been together, messing around twice and getting caught both times!!
Sorry-it ended up being long-but kinda wanted to get it off my chest. I am always here for her, but gee whiz!!! Why wont she wake up and realize what a scum ball he is???!
I have a good friend, we shall call *Amy*..and I really care alot for her and think alot of her. She is the type to anything, for anyone!!
Anywho-shes been married for 10 yrs(3 kids)....well about 3 yrs ago, she found out her DH was cheating on her. She left him for a few mos and decided to try again.
Well back in May they got into a argument, and he hit her, across the chest, leaving a HUGE bruise!!! She called the cops and he got hauled to jail for 24 hrs, and ever since then they have had a "no contact order"
Well, neither one have been abiding by it and they have been sneaking around seeing each other, right?? Well just yesterday she gets the cell phone bill and sees a few #'s she doesnt recognize, and decides to call one. Come to find out, it is the "woman" he was messing around with before!!!
Needless to say, they havent ever really stopped talking or messing around, and Amy is acting like its no big deal!!
I tell her my opinion, which is, of course not what she wants to hear...but damn, I mean really...one time is bad enough to screw around and she forgave him, but to do it again and with the same woman(which BTW, is also married)....Ugghh....why wont she listen to me???
I dont care how many years they have been together, messing around twice and getting caught both times!!
Sorry-it ended up being long-but kinda wanted to get it off my chest. I am always here for her, but gee whiz!!! Why wont she wake up and realize what a scum ball he is???!