Why do people think it's OK to make rude comments about cats?

laureen227

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Originally Posted by SwampWitch

What kind of person says "yuck" about a kitten? They are just about the sweetest things on the planet!
i know! she's said many mean things, both about & to me personally, treats any special ed kids in her class like 2nd class citizens, etc. like i said - not one of my favorite people [HUGE understatement there!] she hadn't even seen the kitten in question, either!
 

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Originally Posted by Rang_27

Then he said it again and added "That's a face only an owner could love." I was really offended, and frankly too shocked to say anything. I know if that had been a human child he would never say that, and I also believe had it been a dog he wouldn't have said that. It was really mean, and upset me. I just don't understand why someone would think it's OK to basicly tell me my cat is ugly.

And I ask, really is this not the most adorable photo ever???
Um, that photo is adorable! I would have made a joke and said yeah, yours is too!
People can get downright annoying about my cat, being a Sphynx.
 

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First of all, Levi your gorgeous sweetie!!


Secondly, when God gave humans tact and brains they missed this co worker of yours out!


And finally, if anyone said any wise crack about my girls they'd know about it!. They can say anything they want about me (but they better pray it never gets back to me!), but don't say anything about my babies when they've done nothing to them
 

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Argh!! I really don't get it either...and yes that picture is adorable


I have heard so many times "why would you pay that much at the vet? I would have just killed her for ya?"

I have heard countless comments about "killing cats" instead of paying money to get them better at the vet..

Would you kill your kid if they had a disease or illness!?!?

It is neverending..and I don't get how people can have such disregard for cats
 

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I've been given my fair share of mean comments about MY cats, too.

People who think I'm crazy for taking so many in, people who think I'm crazy for paying so much to save their lives, people who think it's "gross" to keep them inside the house, people who think I'm plum-nuts for not minding cat hair on my furniture, etc., the list goes on.

I usually just tell them to shut their pie-holes and point out stuff I don't like about THEM, stuff THEY do wrong in life, in my opinion. I totally stand up for my cats and if someone doesn't like cats, well then they certainly don't like me!
 

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I've had very similar things said about the boys. My neighbor has gone as far as telling me that Dr. Claw is ugly.

All in all I don't really let it bother me anymore. The boys are the boys and they aren't going anywhere. Their pictures are going to stay on my desk and I'm going to love them more every day.
 

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Originally Posted by cococat

Um, that photo is adorable! I would have made a joke and said yeah, yours is too!
I was thinking I would say that too!


People can be so ignorant.
 
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I've been called a Cat Lady, a Cat Weirdo. I've been told I'm nuts for all the money I'm spending on Jordan. I don't care about that, my life is my life and no one can tell me he's not worth it. I was just shocked that someone would actually say he was ugly. I've had people tell me how cute or how handsome he is, I just never thought anyone would say he was ugly. I just can't imagine anyone saying he's ugly.
 

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That guy is viewing the world from a distorted mind.
I almost pity him.

I love how quickly members responded to this thread.
I suspect that most of us have experienced negative comments about our love and respect for cats.
I know that I have.
A big bravo to TCS members.
 

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ok, not trying to
here - but how much does Levi look like my sweet Mouse?

of course he's just beautiful, just like she was!
 

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I've had people say that Kaylee is Ugly, and my answer was, She is alot prettier than you are! Id rather look at a dogs butt than your face.
 
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Originally Posted by laureen227

ok, not trying to
here - but how much does Levi look like my sweet Mouse?

of course he's just beautiful, just like she was!
Every time I see that beautiful face in your siggy, I think wait was that Levi.
 

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First, all cats are beautiful.

Second, that was extremely rude of that person to say that and I would have said something to them about it!

Third, your kitty is GORGEOUS
 

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Originally Posted by fwan

I've had people say that Kaylee is Ugly, and my answer was, She is alot prettier than you are! Id rather look at a dogs butt than your face.
Good answer!
 
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