I'm making an appointment today to get Wylie neurtered. I've never owned a male cat and I'm not sure as to what exactly is done in the procedure. I know it has to be done but it makes me so nervous, I always fear the worst. Like, "What if something goes wrong and he dies?" I know I shouldn't feel that way but it has always worried me. When I took my girls Lianna and Cruella to be spayed last year I actually cried when I dropped them off. Part of it because of leaving them some where over night. I always wonder what they think. Do they think I'm abandoning them? These things just worry me. It will be worse with Wylie I fear because unlike the girls he is very talkative, and always cries loudly on the way to the vet and I fear this will make it worse for me. I'm going to be a nervous wreck the entire day of the surgery. Have any of you felt this way when you took them to be spayed or neutered? Please help me to get rid of the nervousness and doubts I feel. I know that Wylie can since this and it will make him feel better if I do.
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5/4/01 at 5:12am