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post #31 of 41
I am so sorry for your loss. It is so hard to go through, my prayers and thoughts are with you.
post #32 of 41
I'm soo sorry for your loss
post #33 of 41
This is incredibly shocking. This must feel so overwhelming. Precious Cleo, poor baby Baby Abby is so very healthy and happy now in Heaven. Still, this does little to ease the pain in your heart. I'm just so incredibly sorry.
post #34 of 41
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I have just crossed the six month mark from when I lost my Alley and it is still so hard to deal with.

I know how much you must miss your girl, but she is healthy and free now and someday you will see her again.

Rest in peace Abby
post #35 of 41
So very sorry to hear your sad news

(((((Hugs)))))
post #36 of 41
I am so sorry to hear about your sweet Abby.
post #37 of 41
OMG Santa Kachucha I'm so sorry for you but I had the same thing, see the white cute cat in the pics in my sig - he died too, I loved him soo much Hope it can comfort you and maybe even just a little
post #38 of 41
OMG. My entire nauseated feelings with Ashie just came back...I am feeling it all over again. Ashley just died on the 1st...out of NOWHERE. Well, sort of. We didn't know what was wrong with her, but after thinking her joints were bothering her, we gave her Cosequin...and she seemed to perk back up. Then...on Memorial Day, she stopped eating and hid even more. I took her to MSU and everything went down hill from there. UGH.

My deepest condolences. I SOOOO know what you are going through. We had Ashley cremated, as well, and now she is home where she belongs.
post #39 of 41
Thread Starter 
Thank you all so very much for your help through this tough time. You have all been so kind and it has really been helpful to me.

It is getting a little easier day by day to come to terms with the loss of my sweet baby. My grandma passed away just over a year ago and we inherited her 2 cats -one of which was really her baby and is Abby's half-sister. So it makes it a little easier for me to think that grandma and I just switched babies for the time being. I have hers and she now has mine.

I am also trying to think positively and truly believe that it is time for me to move on in my own life. Maybe that was why she had to go so soon. I just graduated from college in May and will hopefully be landing a good job soon. I currently live with my parents but am hoping to save up enough money once I get a job to move out on my own. I have also recently met a wonderful man and although he and I are taking it very slowly, I have a good feeling about it being long-term. I've got a lot of good things going for me right now.

But even so, I still struggled with the thought of what was going to happen with my Abby. With all of the health problems she has previously had, I didn't know how I was going to be able to care for her between work and everything else. And when it came time to move out, should I take her with me or leave her with my parents. I was really worried sick about what was going to happen with her in the future. After all, she was my baby and I loved her more than anything. She always came first, no matter what.

I guess I no longer have to worry about any of that. She's now in a good place where she is forever pain free and is being taken care of until I make my way to her again. And I can go forward in life with the comfort of knowing that she is ok and is watching over me now, as I had watched over her for the wonderful 10 years that she was alive.
post #40 of 41
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It is getting a little easier day by day to come to terms with the loss of my sweet baby. My grandma passed away just over a year ago and we inherited her 2 cats -one of which was really her baby and is Abby's half-sister. So it makes it a little easier for me to think that grandma and I just switched babies for the time being. I have hers and she now has mine.
Shortstuff2309 -- Reading that paragraph made me smile b/c I could envision it you've sounded remarkably strong and brave throughout Abby's crisis , and I'm glad that you have these positive thoughts despite this trying time . Congratulations on graduating from college; I hope you'll be able to find a job you're passionate about & hope things continue to be promising with your guy . I hope you'll continue to post on TCS and keep us updated on how you're doing.

Stay strong , and Good Luck .
post #41 of 41
I'm so sorry for your loss... It's always tough loosing a pet; it's like loosing a part of your soul... ~

Abby- Look for my Rookie; he's a very sweet companion :3

~Kiba
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