MSU called again just a bit ago...and now are re-thinking it could be FIP or cancer....both not great. And he said the fluid in her abdomen is making her pretty uncomfortable. They have found a mass near one of her kidneys (about an inch in diameter) and are going to do an aspiration on it (is that the right term?) to see what it is, blah blah. He stated the prognosis was poor, but if it were cancer, there are options (chemo, etc), but that she may not respond to chemo, it is costly, and it may make her sick in the process. So I don't think that would be an option for me.
But with that information at hand, what would you do?? Would you just call it quits for her?? I mean, I guess my heart knows deep down that is what needs to be done, but for some reason, my head and my mouth aren't being objective/in agreement.
Or do I let her come home and wait it out??
Either way, if they haven't even done the aspiration thingy yet tonight (I am going to visit her tonight), do I just tell them not to worry about it and take her home?? Or do I just let her stay there and then tomorrow take her to our own vet for euthanasia?
I am scared to bring her home only to have to take her away again tomorrow and go through that pain all over again of taking her from her house for GOOD, but part of me thinks Ashie needs to be HOME again first....to know we haven't abandoned her or took her away from home. Nobody can tell me anything, I know....it is personal, but what would YOU guys do???
This is THE WORST thing to go through. At least with a person, you aren't really making decisions on their life, really.....I mean, sometimes, but there are also more extenuating circumstances with people...with a cat, they can't talk to tell you how they feel or what they want...nothing like that.....and with people, we DO chemo, etc....and people KNOW why they are sick....Ashie doesn't....
OMFG. OMFG. OMFG. Do I clean up Ashie's food dishes now or no??? Her litter box now or no????
:censor::censor::censor: do I do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But with that information at hand, what would you do?? Would you just call it quits for her?? I mean, I guess my heart knows deep down that is what needs to be done, but for some reason, my head and my mouth aren't being objective/in agreement.
Either way, if they haven't even done the aspiration thingy yet tonight (I am going to visit her tonight), do I just tell them not to worry about it and take her home?? Or do I just let her stay there and then tomorrow take her to our own vet for euthanasia?
I am scared to bring her home only to have to take her away again tomorrow and go through that pain all over again of taking her from her house for GOOD, but part of me thinks Ashie needs to be HOME again first....to know we haven't abandoned her or took her away from home. Nobody can tell me anything, I know....it is personal, but what would YOU guys do???
This is THE WORST thing to go through. At least with a person, you aren't really making decisions on their life, really.....I mean, sometimes, but there are also more extenuating circumstances with people...with a cat, they can't talk to tell you how they feel or what they want...nothing like that.....and with people, we DO chemo, etc....and people KNOW why they are sick....Ashie doesn't....
OMFG. OMFG. OMFG. Do I clean up Ashie's food dishes now or no??? Her litter box now or no????
:censor::censor::censor: do I do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!