At the shelter yesterday, a lady returned a cat, rather young, whom she'd adopted recently. She was one of those people who thinks they know everything, but knows nothing (no clue about breeds, etc). Especially about cats. Now, they couldn't have picked a better cat. K. (name abbreviated to protect him) was a sweet, VERY laid-back cat... an absolute loverboy. Since bringing him home, he has peed on everything, scratched the toddler (more on him in a moment), and is fearful. They decided to return him to us. This poor cat peed on the hubby THROUGH the cardboard carrier. He was scared to death of the man.
As we were talking to this couple and their little h*llion of a boy, she told us all of this. She kept having to tell the child to not touch the kitties... and he kept ignoring her. And ignoring us. We have a gorgeous 'cat tree' carved hollow from a tree trunk... this thing is massive... and fragile, as it's held together by strategically placed rope ties. No cats are allowed on it, we wouldn't be able to get them out. But this boy started leaning on it and reaching inside one of the openings above his head. I told him to stop. He was a little wary of me from then on. The mother told us later than he was being very well behaved here 'he always behaves here' ... makes me shudder to think what he's like at home.
Our intake folks observed K. (the cat) once they got him away from the family... he was cowering in the back of his cage, scared to death of anyone coming near him. Something happened in that house. Something bad. We talked to the adoption counselors about the things the people said. And we recommended that they just refund the money, instead of letting them adopt another cat... and to put them on a 'list' if there is one... for banning from adopting cats in the near future. I'm just afraid they'll hit the HS or a local rescue and adopt from them.
I wish there was a list. Some sort of inter-agency communication between shelters, rescues and the HS. Maybe there is one. Personally, I think people should be required to take classes and a test to get a license to adopt/buy pets. But maybe that could happen once we get the overpopulation down.
Mods: if you think this belongs more in IMO, go ahead and move it...
People like this should be... well... I can't say that unless I want this moved to IMO.
Amanda
As we were talking to this couple and their little h*llion of a boy, she told us all of this. She kept having to tell the child to not touch the kitties... and he kept ignoring her. And ignoring us. We have a gorgeous 'cat tree' carved hollow from a tree trunk... this thing is massive... and fragile, as it's held together by strategically placed rope ties. No cats are allowed on it, we wouldn't be able to get them out. But this boy started leaning on it and reaching inside one of the openings above his head. I told him to stop. He was a little wary of me from then on. The mother told us later than he was being very well behaved here 'he always behaves here' ... makes me shudder to think what he's like at home.
Our intake folks observed K. (the cat) once they got him away from the family... he was cowering in the back of his cage, scared to death of anyone coming near him. Something happened in that house. Something bad. We talked to the adoption counselors about the things the people said. And we recommended that they just refund the money, instead of letting them adopt another cat... and to put them on a 'list' if there is one... for banning from adopting cats in the near future. I'm just afraid they'll hit the HS or a local rescue and adopt from them.
I wish there was a list. Some sort of inter-agency communication between shelters, rescues and the HS. Maybe there is one. Personally, I think people should be required to take classes and a test to get a license to adopt/buy pets. But maybe that could happen once we get the overpopulation down.
Mods: if you think this belongs more in IMO, go ahead and move it...
People like this should be... well... I can't say that unless I want this moved to IMO.
Amanda