Hi all,
Hope you can remember my story with Singa (my resident cat) and our new-comer in February Soleil.
I'm a bit sad, because I just can't warm up to Soleil. She is cute and all, but she is so much more naughty than Singa when she was a kitten. Soleil completely does not want me to hold her and she does not want to cuddle or anything. She is a bit more open to my BF. She keeps on scratching the couch - all training methods including Feliway do not work, so I keep on scolding her and trying to set her in from of the 'real' scratching tree. REcently when I did that she tried to scratch me in the face - more the eye tho. Luckly she couldn't reach. I have the feeling she thinks I'm a piece of furniture that moves. She jumps on me while running around - basically as if I was not a living being, but a couch. She has even managed to jump into my back with claws out and everything, in one of her "I'm hunting invisible mice" moods.
I really don't know how to love her!
I mean I do in a way, but nothing like I love my Singa. She would never use her claws on anything, except when she is scared to take a bath
I really don't know what to do with her...
How can I get her to warm up with me and how can I get myself to love her???
Hope you can remember my story with Singa (my resident cat) and our new-comer in February Soleil.
I'm a bit sad, because I just can't warm up to Soleil. She is cute and all, but she is so much more naughty than Singa when she was a kitten. Soleil completely does not want me to hold her and she does not want to cuddle or anything. She is a bit more open to my BF. She keeps on scratching the couch - all training methods including Feliway do not work, so I keep on scolding her and trying to set her in from of the 'real' scratching tree. REcently when I did that she tried to scratch me in the face - more the eye tho. Luckly she couldn't reach. I have the feeling she thinks I'm a piece of furniture that moves. She jumps on me while running around - basically as if I was not a living being, but a couch. She has even managed to jump into my back with claws out and everything, in one of her "I'm hunting invisible mice" moods.
I really don't know how to love her!
I really don't know what to do with her...