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post #31 of 42
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Originally Posted by GoldenKitty45 View Post
DH and I's thoughts are you divorce if one (or both) spouse has cheated on the other, or there is abuse involved. Most anything else should be worked out.
Most things are just not worth giving up something you have worked hard at. If you have truly given your best, and the other person has given their best, you can get through anything except cheating and abuse. IMO.

Good luck Monica.
post #32 of 42
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Originally Posted by GoldenKitty45 View Post
Am sorry to hear things didn't work out. But if you can't come to terms and nothing is working and you've tried everything, then parting ways has to occur. I wish the best for both of you.

DH and I's thoughts are you divorce if one (or both) spouse has cheated on the other, or there is abuse involved. Most anything else should be worked out.
I agree with this also. Shawn and I have had our times.But, there has been NO abuse nor has there been any cheating.We just learned how to lean on each other and make it work
That being said, it takes BOTH of you to make it work.If one isn't willing, then it's best not to stay in the relationship.
Monica, we only know what you post here or PM to *us*.So, I will NOT assume anything.
post #33 of 42
Best of luck to you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
post #34 of 42
Monica I am terribly sorry to hear this. But it has already been said, Do what is best for YOU!
post #35 of 42
I am so sorry you have to go through this..I can't imagine how hard it would be when you have children (fur and skin).

to you Monica
post #36 of 42
I'm so happy for you!!! From everything you have been posting about your situation over the past couple of months scream abusive relationship. I'm thrilled that you are getting out. Frankly I have been really worried about you and have wished more than a few times that I could reach through the computer and just shake you until you came to your senses and saw him for what he is.

I am sorry over the fact that you aren't able to take all of your kitties with you though. I see in another thread that you have to rehome some of them.

I got out of an abusive relationship, and I have counselled abused women. If you need an ear or a shoulder, feel free to send me a PM and we can talk in MSN Messenger.

It's natural to be sad, but this is truly a step in the right direction towards self healing and empowerment.
post #37 of 42
Good luck with your future plans. I think you have made a very tough but good decision about your llfe.
post #38 of 42
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It is very tough!!! I hate having to do this....but even if its for *temporary* I think its best.

Once again, thank you all! I wish I could reach through here and hug every one of you!!!
post #39 of 42
I hope everything is going ok for you. I wasnt really sure how to respond because this kind of issue is so sensitive...But I hope it all works out and you find happiness....You deserve it.
post #40 of 42
I wish you all the best, maybe there is someone else in your future who you can be happy with. I hope you will be ok.
post #41 of 42
Perhaps some time apart will give you the clarity you need to see what it is that you both want and need...I too have been worried about your situation, as it sounded like it was getting really hard to manage.

Best of luck to you, Mon. I'm sorry it's been so tough. It WILL get better.
post #42 of 42
I am sorry you are going thru such a difficult time. My heart goes out to you and I will keep you in my prayers.

Good luck.
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