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Ady, having TCS vibes and prayers really meant a lot to Gary, and I'm sure they'll help your hubby too.


We are both sending huge vibes and already sent up a prayer. This is going to turn out to be stress-induced, and with proper care he'll be good as new, and he is healing as I write.

I recently read that with vibes it's important to think in the present, not in the future. So I'm starting right now.


We'll be thinking of you Tuesday, and I'm so glad you put your foot down and are going to be with him!



Laurie (& Gary too - he's being involved tonight.
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Originally Posted by CarolPetunia

Oh gosh... absolutely engulfing you and your husband in healing, calming light.

Practical question: Does your husband have disability insurance? If not, can anything be done about that?


Miracles can be done these days... so keep the faith.
Hubby is covered by work (I think he has close to 300 sick days saved). OHIP (Ontario's health Insurance) covers all tests and medical things. His prescriptions are paid 100% from work. If, God forbid, he is off longer then his sick credit, he has short and long term disability from work. At least that is 1 stress we don't have to worry about!

Thanks for the support everyone, it means alot to both of us!

It was a rough weekend - he was exhausted and spent much of it asleep. I think he has come to grips with the reality of what is happening. He said that after he sees the doctor on Tuesday that he will probably be off work for a while. And even bigger for him, he has admitted he is scared. But he thinks I am babying him (I'm not). He says he feels embarrassed and useless and no matter what I tell him, he won't change his mind about being embarrassed and useless.

I don't know what I would do without TCS!

Thank for your continued support
 

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It's unfortunate that he's feeling embarrassed and useless, but that can still change. The rest of his attitude shift is a large step in the right direction -- embarrassed or not, he's much more likely now to do as he's told, and thus lick this sooner rather than later. Continued vibes and prayers for his quick recovery and for you and the boys to stay strong for him. I'm glad he's got lots of sick leave.
 

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ady did you find out if it was a heart attack? when is the stress test? i hope things are going well for him. it sucks having medical problems and i really hope it isn't cancer. it is hard to learn how to adjust what youre used to doing when your body isnt up to it anymore. it is my turn to send healing vibes and im sending them his way.

gary
 

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I'm so sorry I'm just seeing this. I actually am working with a woman right now (client) who sounds like she was where your husband is. She says her DR finally just got through to her and basically said if she wanted to stay alive she'd make some changes. So she has! Basically she worked way too much and just took the weight of the world on her shoulders. She's learned to let others help carry it now. I'm praying they are able to give you both some good encouraging hope tomorrow.
 

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hugs and a mega-heap of get well vibes for your husband.


I really hope everything works out well after the test today (well it is Tuesday already where I am). I will keep sending good thoughts your way.

Remember you must also look after yourself too so this group of hugs is just for you
 
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Heyla everyone!

Well the test went ok, but long. we were there from 7:15 am to 1 pm. We won't find out the results until Saturday. He did go back to the Dr on Tuesday night and got put on light duties (finally), but work is not being very cooperative. The dr did say that it did look like he had a previous heart attack, but we will know more on Saturday.

All of your prayers and vibes are very much appreciated.

Thanks
 
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