Okay, this relates to the below thread of my feeling sad.
http://www.thecatsite.com/forums/sho...d.php?t=126029
Well my family came up with a solution:
They would help us move from So CA to No CA and get settled in. My sister is basically handing me a job at her company doing computer work. It sounds great, right? Plus my family would all be there with us.
The rent is cheaper & you get more for your $$. We could pay off our credit cards quicker.
The bad:
My poor husband would be farther from his family (now it's 8 hours vs 13) He wouldn't still have a job. But my sister has contacts to help him get one.
I love my job & my boss. He basically created my position so I could stay (I was a temp). But we can't make it on one salary. I hate the thought of leaving my job. I hate change.
Plus my husband & I keep going back & forth "yes" "no". We like it here, we hate change, but then I know when and if he gets a job, we'll still be struggling.
Ugh!!! What to do?? It sounds like it should be easy, but it's not. I love my job, I was getting sad today just thinking about leaving it. But as my mom says I may love my job, but I need to do what is best for us. I still need to check with my sister about her job, making sure it really is a go before I think about leaving here.
http://www.thecatsite.com/forums/sho...d.php?t=126029
Well my family came up with a solution:
They would help us move from So CA to No CA and get settled in. My sister is basically handing me a job at her company doing computer work. It sounds great, right? Plus my family would all be there with us.
The rent is cheaper & you get more for your $$. We could pay off our credit cards quicker.
The bad:
My poor husband would be farther from his family (now it's 8 hours vs 13) He wouldn't still have a job. But my sister has contacts to help him get one.
I love my job & my boss. He basically created my position so I could stay (I was a temp). But we can't make it on one salary. I hate the thought of leaving my job. I hate change.
Plus my husband & I keep going back & forth "yes" "no". We like it here, we hate change, but then I know when and if he gets a job, we'll still be struggling.
Ugh!!! What to do?? It sounds like it should be easy, but it's not. I love my job, I was getting sad today just thinking about leaving it. But as my mom says I may love my job, but I need to do what is best for us. I still need to check with my sister about her job, making sure it really is a go before I think about leaving here.