First, she didn't "knead" until she was about 4 months old.
Second, she doesn't clean herself, especially not on the rear area. <-- I'm most concerned about this one!
Is there anything we can do to help her?
Thanks for your help!
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Also don't want her to develop mats which could lead to skin problems.
So go ahead and start wiping your kitty down several times a day with baby wipes and then gently brush out any tangles/poo.
She will catch on soon! Also- if the kitty's bottom is very dirty- you MUST bathe it....leaving urine/feces on it can cause urin burns/irritation and it can be very painful to them. Also- there may be another problem causing kitty not to keep itself clean. (i don't think it is in your case but would like to throw this out there as it might help someone else!) If your kitty is VERY overweight- it might not be able to groom itself properly. Kitty's are very agil and flexible- and the result of obeasity in kitties can cause a number of health issues- including grooming if they can't properly reach all their parts to get themselves clean. So the solution to that would be for the owner to clean them several times daily and also put them on a good healthy diet (preferably home cooked/raw- but consult a vet that specializes in nutrition!) When we adopted Jasmine a while back- she was morbidly overweight....she is still overweight even now (as it takes cats a long time to loose weight safely) so we do our best to keep her as clean as possible
Hopefully, the more weight she looses, the better she will be able to keep herself clean. She tries, bless her heart- but she just can't reach and bend like more fit kitties can

I'm not entirely sure a bath would be the best idea if she isn't used to them. You could try to slowly get her used to the process, but I'd be worried at her age of subjecting her to that kind of stress. Does she like to get brushed at all?
Something you could try instead of a full-on bath is Earthbath Grooming Foam. You just rub it on and then towel off, without having to immerse the kitty in water. I use this on my geriatric guy when he feels a little greasy. It makes his fur fluffy and soft, and it doesn't stress him out at all.
There are a few options for arthritis, like the usual glucosamine-based products (Cosequin or Dasaquin are good). Green-lipped mussel can sometimes be effective, and Adequan injections help many cats. I also recommend getting a heating pad made for pets (my cat LOVES his) and some pet-stairs to help your girl get on and off furniture or the bed or wherever she likes to hang out.
I take my cat for acupuncture and osteopathy treatments on a regular basis and they've definitely made a difference. Some vets also offer laser therapy. Would be good to talk to your vet about the various options, even pain meds (just not Metacam!!) if necessary. There are other conditions that can seem like arthritis (like low potassium, dehydration, neuropathy, etc) so it's a good idea to confirm that your cat does indeed have arthritis (although apparently 80-90% of cats over 12 have it to some degree).
I don't know if you're married or have an SO or anything. This will take two people. If you're only worried about cleaning your kitty's bottom......
Our Bridge Baby, Banshee, had some trouble keeping her bottom clean at times. We didn't know what else to do, so one night Rick I took her back to the bathroom. I held her with her bottom kind of "hanging out" and Rick gently washed her butt. We did use soap on a warm wash cloth (which became Banshee's very own washcloth!) and he cleaned her as best he could. She just flopped in my arms and allowed Rick to clean her....actually, she would lay there and purr. After he was done with the soapy cloth, he'd rinse her well with another cloth just in warm water. A quick dry off with a small hand towel (Banshee's very own hand towel) and she was done. (She was known as the Queen B....and believe me, she knew it.)
Hi there!
We adopted a kitten last night, and she is TINY. She was bought as a present for me from my boyfriend, and was done entirely through a friend, so we didn't get to meet her until last night. The woman we bought her from said she was 8 weeks old, but no way is she! I think she's more like 5 weeks, possibly younger, as she's still a little shaky on her feet.
The problem is that she's not cleaning herself after she goes in the litter tray. At the moment, my boyfriend's cleaning her up with a dry tissue, while I hold her. Is this in any way the right thing to do? She's only little and in a new house, so I don't want to give her a bath and stress her out!
Any help appreciated, thank you! <3
I do not think what she needs is a bath. Not grooming in older cats is usually a symptom that they're sick. I would recommend getting her to a vet, especially given her age. 




If you want disposable, use paper towels (with warm water on them, they should be damp).
I totally second LDG's suggestion, CatzBcatZ. A reduction in grooming habits is a classic signal a cat isn't feeling well (unless, of course, the cat's too obese to properly groom, but that doesn't seem to be the problem here); I would take this sweet lady to the vet as soon as you can. Have you had a senior panel run on her lately? If not, I'd recommend one.
Hugs to you and Miss Pinka!
AC
P.S. Love the quirkiness of Laptop's name! 