Does anyone else feel like this?
I just feel sad, depressed because I feel like we can't get anywhere in life. What brought this to ahead is my sister just purchased her first home. My husband has been out of work since Feb and I'm the only one working to support us right now. And I just feel like we can't plan our lives... beyond living day to day. We live in costly CA and we just signed our lease for another year. I love our apt, but I want something that is ours. So hearing my unmarried sister go on & on about her new house, isn't what I need right now. I'm proud that she is doing on her own, but she's use to $800 rent, not a $1900 house payment. We pay almost that in rent.
What can I do to feel like we can plan? We have been married six years now and I just thought my life would be fuller (possibly a baby, house by now). I love my husband & kitties. But you know....
Just need to vent.
I just feel sad, depressed because I feel like we can't get anywhere in life. What brought this to ahead is my sister just purchased her first home. My husband has been out of work since Feb and I'm the only one working to support us right now. And I just feel like we can't plan our lives... beyond living day to day. We live in costly CA and we just signed our lease for another year. I love our apt, but I want something that is ours. So hearing my unmarried sister go on & on about her new house, isn't what I need right now. I'm proud that she is doing on her own, but she's use to $800 rent, not a $1900 house payment. We pay almost that in rent.
What can I do to feel like we can plan? We have been married six years now and I just thought my life would be fuller (possibly a baby, house by now). I love my husband & kitties. But you know....
Just need to vent.